Hair today....

[Cockney_si]

Ok so there is always the argument about guys prefering blondes or brunettes or redheads....

BUT

How would you cope if the girl of your dreams or your girlfriend lost all her hair?

[bednobs]

i dont really understand your question ... hair dosent have anything to do with what someone is like, or your relationship with them does it? .. thats just like saying how would you cope if they lost a finger? you just would, wouldn't you?
I was nly talking to my friend about hair last night after seeing that penelope cuz advert .. i hatepeople who are so self satisfied with their hair and go flicking it all around ... hair isn't important. In a western culture hair seems to be given great importance ... ie if you were describing someone, you might start with their hair. In an african culture, hair isnt important at all, because african hair is similar, so you might describe someone by their facial features, or their personality

[Catso]

It's a reasonable question, bednobs.

I think it'd be a bit of shock, but if you were in a relationship already, as bednobs says, you'd just get used to it and carry on. I suppose it depends, but bald can be sexy: Sinaid O'Connor, her off Star Trek, that actress who's just got alopecia...

[nat_84]

I watched that Gail Porter documentary - havent cried so much in ages!!

Her boyfriend was an absolute rare diamond!!!

He was sooo sweet to her and amazing with her daughter.

She went through the trouble of getting a wig and he was like "its just not you" and she took it off and he was like "there u are -much better!!" and gave her a massive hug!!

So bloody cute!

[Pippa68]

Preferring a certain hair colour doesn't really have anything to do with relationships, as bednobs has already said.

My husband has a *thing* about brunettes, but I am blonde. He loves me, so I reckon if I lost all my hair tomorrow it really wouldn't be much of an issue for him.

[Cockney_si]

I wasn't meaning anything bad by the question bednobs, just turning the tables on an age old problem, personally I'd be gutted at first but of course I'm mature enough to deal with it.

Lots of guys go bald prematurely but not many people realise that some women do to.