Sexual Health

[laurenamium]

My boyfriend has little blisters on his willy and he says they really hurt, I have nothing wrong with me so it hasnt come from me. He is refusing to go to the doctors and swears blind he hasnt cheated. Any ideas what they could be?

[noxlumos]

Yeah they could be a sexually transmitted disease and he could be lying through his teeth. He HAS to go to the Drs and so have you. A lot of women have no symptoms of a STD for years so get yourself down to the Drs or you could be causing yourself all sorts of problems for the future including possible infertility.Alternatively it might be nothing ( allergic reaction etc) but he must go and get checked.

[JackDanielsU]

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/menshealth/facts/sp otsonthepenis.htm

Could be nothing...but yes best get it checked out. If he hasnt been playing around he has nothing to fear that he has a STD.
He could just be embarrassed though.

[laurence2]

can only echo above mentioned, it could all be very innocent, but best to play it safe {its the GP's i'm afraid}

[ummmm]

It could be herpes. Do either of you suffer from them? You can pass them on from oral sex. If it is it can lay dormant for a long time. Same as cold sores. So there is a good chance he hasn't cheated. He would need to go and get it diognosed though

[ummmm]

Sorry, got that one wrong way round. I meant do either of you suffer from cold sores.

[laurenamium]

thankyou just confirmed what I thought, no we dont. Il force him to the docs though!thankyou xx looked on that link and they sound like that papules. Thankyou very much

[Xanthippe]

If you go to your local hospital, they should have a Genital and Urinary medicine clinic (G.U.M.) where you can be checked and tested for all types of STD's. You do not have to use your real name either.

Alternately, you could look at the photographs of STD's on the attached site and compare the images with your boyfriends problem. Please note that some of the images are unpleasant. I would suggest you start with the herpes virus and move onto genital warts before delving any deeper. I hope you are not offended by anything on view. Best wishes.

http://www.herpes-coldsores.com/std/pictures.h tm

[RATTER15]

It sounds like it going to rot and fall off!! but im sure it wont.

[crete]

im not sure it might drop off

[laurenamium]

hahaha would be funny if it did. Crete I replied to a response you put down about malia!would be grateful if you told me what you meant haha

[crete]

are you old enough to go on 18 30 holiday me thinks not !

[Nemesis9]

I don't want to put him in an 'awkward position', but has he just come back from holiday?

[laurenamium]

hahah youve gotta be kidding, rhis is gunna be my first holiday wiv the girls but im 20 thanks. I like the compliment tho. and no he hasnt just come back off holiday, if he had it wud be a completely diffrent kettle of fish

[crete]

is gunna short for something ?

[kissyfur]

Hes got herpes for sure. We have just done sexual health as a module at uni and he is describing all the symptoms. Dont let him come near you or touch you intimatley as they can be passed on through skin to skin contact. And once herpes is in the body there is no getting rid of it, so he has to use a condom everytime from now on.

[Nemesis9]

Trousers down boys, Dr Kissyfur is doing her rounds ; )

[kissyfur]

Damn right I am! lol. People are so blase about sexual health. Just think a bit more responsibilty should be taken these days. By not going to the doctors he's putting his gf at risk, and thats not on. Im sure im not alone in thinking this x

[4getmenot]

kissyfur I suggest instead of giving your helpful advice to this person you look at their post in suggestions section. they are a total wind up. Let them catch all the stds they like.

[crete]

yes spot on