he loves me, he loves me not!

[xJx]

ok scenorio! a boy your seeing (for 4 months) whos quite drunk one night tells you he loves you and wants to be with you and then the next day goes a bit quiet and tells you maybe it was a bit to soon to say it. then he gets drunk again a few nights later and tells u he loves you over and over again what would you think!? would you think he is just saying it cuz his drunk or that he does actually love you but is shy to say it when he is sober? random question i know!

[electricblue]

Its said that the truth comes out when you're drunk,and when you're sober you're back to being a 'lad'.

[xJx]

i wish lads would be lads but be open about it. im yet to find one that can express their emotions and feelins without gettin trollied on booze before hand.

[electricblue]

Very rare,dont change when they're older either,though i hear you do get the exception to the rule!Men just arent capable of showing emotion it seems!Not without drink support!

[gleaveyweave]

As electricblue says, "a drunk man never lies". Sounds to me like he only has the confidence to say he loves you after a few drinks and then, when he realises the next morning, he's scared that he's been so open with his feelings and backs off a bit. Doesn't mean that he's not for real when he says it.
Men hey??!! Good luck x

[Nemesis9]

Drunk or sober, we try to remember to occasionally say those things that will aid us in achieving our primary goal in life.
Namely persuading women that we are sincere, caring and lovable in the hope that these sentiments will convince them to relinquish their undergarments.

Don't worry the guy 'digs' you, he's just a 'dude' and is worried he might have appeared 'uncool'. ; )

[auzzie]

Of course it will have nothing to do with trying to get you to have sex with him, i don't suppose.

[stephyker]

Let me ask, after he said I love you, did he try it on, and you had sex?

If he meant it, then he would have been relieved to have said it to you, and would not be embarrassed when he is sober. I wouldn't accept it. But if you really want to know, ask him when he isn't drinking straight out.

If he can't say he likes you when he is sober, he needs to grow up, and you need to move on.

[xJx]

no we didnt have sex right before. to be honest that wouldnt be the case anyways cuz we had slept together loads before we actually went away together so if he was just after that then he didnt need to tell me he loves me. didnt mean that to sound ******! the first time he told me we were sitting on a balcony cuddling and he had written me a letter and the second time he was in a&e on a hospital bed lol! he had a bit of a fall whilst we were out and needed stiches. i was trying to keep him awake so asked what we could talk about and he said us and that he loved me and didnt want me to leave his side. thought i'd track this post down tonight cuz im feeling a bit down! no reason why! iv seen this bloke loads since we got home and stayed at his last night and his asked me around again in a few nights time. i released i've never really told him completly how i feel. i tried to approach the subject today but he didnt really pick up on it. as he wrote me a letter telling me his feelings im considering doing the same for him tonight. is this a good plan or will i regret it once iv done it? any lads out there, if so if a girl gave you a letter expressing her emotions and feelins for you and you liked her and saw her loads would it make you run a mile or would you think its sweet? opinions please! i'm about to put pen to paper and be all soppy x

[xJx]

didnt have sex after i meant to say!