looks or personality?

[mnko]

what do you go 4?

[redcrx]

personality mainly but looks attract you in the first place.

[4getmenot]

If I was just to go out and pull then looks. But I tend to find the people I�ve grown close to and stayed with are not what would stand out to me in a crowd at all but have the biggest hearts and make me laugh.

[bednobs]

a mixture of both. although, as i have been married for 6 years really neither anymore. For friends definately personality. For lovers i think you have to have an initial attraction (physical) then you fall in love with their personality. i also think it can probably change over a lifetime. when i wqs younger looks were far more important than they would be to me now

[loobie]

Both!!! I love my boyf's personality but I couldn't be with him if I didn't fancy him!! Luckily I think he's gorgeous!!! I was physically attracted to him when I saw him and his personality came in just after!!

[Lore]

loobie, I think we're dating the same guy!!

I think on the whole most people when looking for a relationship go for personality first but we'd all be liars if we said looks didn't matter.

My fiance has so many qualities, it's hard to say what I like/love about him the most. All I know is, He's perfect! - well, as far a men go anyway! :oP

[PinkFizz]

Looks always catch my eye initially but there then has to be a great personality to go with it,or else I wouldn't be interested.

[natalie_1982]

You have to be physically attracted to somebody in the first place to even consider a relationship, but it wouldn't last long if they had the personality of a gnat.

It has to be a mix of both. Luckily, my hubby has the most amazing a*se in the world and he's very kind too ;-)

[laurence2]

personality hands down, i believe people who JUST go for looks are as shallow minded as the mirror brigade, no offence to the so-called lookers, but why is it that the MAJORITY can't hold a conversation when their out with you? ie their either looking at people looking at them or trying to find a mirror to look at themselves?

[electricblue]

I kinda agree with laurence,a guy who i've known for years,always been a chemistry between us but he's not exactly a looker but he's great,theres something about him thats 'exciting' kinda!!

[Champagne]

Personality. Every time.

My boyfriend went for looks. ;o)

[PinkFizz]

lol Champagne!

[bexste]

Personality always shines through. If you can find somebody who makes you laugh it leaves more of an impression than somebody you meet who is just good looking. I also think that sometimes you can get to know somebody who you do not have an initial physical attraction to but of they have a great personaiity you can come around to finding them very sexy as well.

[Goodsoulette]

personality, everytime.

Although saying that Sawyer beats Jack hands down everytime.

[TheTemptress]

i met my hubby on a blind date, ill be honest, he wasnt my type and he looked a bit of a geek...but the main thing i was attracted to was his manners.....a huge thing where i come from....he is still well mannered with a very naughty streak...ive been with him 25years and he makes me very very happy indeed...a huge job i can tell you..but the guy really knows how to treat a woman...thats a biggy!!