why do men do it!?!

[xJx]

iv just got back from my holiday and missed the guy iv been seeing for a while now like mad!!! whilst i was away he rung me most days told me he misses me and loves me. i saw him last night which was perfect and he asked me to go to a family wedding reception tomorrow night with him whcih i agreed too. today iv hardly heard from him. spoke a bit online but he was at work and texted him a few hours ago to find out plans for tomorrow but im yet to hear anything. why do men do that!!!

[RATTER15]

Maybe he is busy, cut him some slack, maybe he is down the florist or the churchyard getting you some flowers. us guys just cant win!!

[Orangesauce1]

i am a female and I agree with Ratter. We read more into things then men realise... its our down size. I am with a guy that has made me realise that sometimes they just dont want to talk..... I never thought I would learn

[xJx]

i know i think i get to paranoid. its just so annoyin. i get all loved up and expect it to always be like that and then when its not im to sensitive. sure everything will be fine tomorrow when he decides to get in touch. just cant help it. im such a girl!

[BigBishop]

Bunny Boiler?

[xJx]

god u guys are mean ;-(

[RATTER15]

Not mean just realists

[hannah333]

I think you are totally normal to be like this - it just means you are female. From an outsider looking in though, I think you can sleep just fine tonight - I think the 'down the florist' idea is the most likely scenario!!

[Carakeel]

I am female and agree with Ratter too. Be careful not to be too pushy, it can spoil a lovely relationship. Remember, you are and will always be two individuals. Individuals have lives of their own to take care of and also sometimes need a little space, no matter how loved up they are. If you love him, respect his space too. He will appreciate it, honestly. I dare say he will like you a lot more if you don't appear too needy and controlling. Best wishes, hope it all works out.

Oh, and Ratter, flowers nicked from the churchyard don't count!!! Cheapskate!