i hate people judging others especially when they dont know enough about people. ill give you a good example. my son goes to a posh school but we live in a nice estate but is part of a council estate. my son was invited (he's 10) to a party in a huge house in the west end of town. as soon as he arrived, he was asked where he lived. on hearing this the mother said he shouldn't have been invited because of where he lived. when i picked my son up he was very upset, he was also told he couldnt enter the house and had been in the pool and not given a towel. i collected him soaking wet and had to put him in the car like that....very intelligent and polite behaviour...i just hate that whole attitude....ok, soap box away now for the evening....i need cheering up cos im all alone and bored...i know i should have avoided this one guys, sorry