men??

[teag1rl]

Sorry, but I'm not used to this actually going out and pulling stuff. Got a snog on sat and we got on really well, he took my number and text me Sunday am, and I replied but have not heard a dickie bird since. I sent a light hearted text last night hoping his head was better to which I got no response. I know it hasn't been long, but I am a little bit miffed to have got nothing back. So men, why would you bother texting someone at all? I'm not bitter-just a liffle confuddled!

[Champagne]

Yeah.... fcukers aren't they!!

You probably didn't resemble his mother enough.

[ummmm]

you should never worry until past midnight on a wednesday!! Mid-week, don't want to look to eager blar de blar

[raysparx1]

teag1rl,

He is not being very nice,but we aren't all like that, if you see him again, squeeze his gonads till he squeals ;like a pig, that'll teach him not to mess with lovely ladies xx

[claireyfairy]

Might have run out of cred on his mobile? or he might just be a bit of a git!

[teag1rl]

Thanks all xx. I dont know why he bothered at all, but if he DOES decide I'm worthy of a response eventually he'll have to try very hard with me!!

[PinkFizz]

This is the problem with texts - unless you actually speak to the person you don't know that they ever received the text! This happened with my guy - I sent him a txt ages ago and he never replied so I was quite cross as it was important.When he got in he swore he had replied and showed me his mobile - and there in his 'sent' folder was the text,and it said 'delivered',but I never received it.So my advice is if you like him,just give him a call and say you enjoyed the other night and does he fancy meeting up for a drink -what have you got to lose?

[MORELLO]

It happens. You had a snog on a Saturday night and that was it . He probably sensed you wanted him to say he would phone, so he did. Then didn't as he had no intention of. End of. Get over it and move on. Some of us are b@st*rds, but not all of us so don't let it put you off.

[teag1rl]

Yeah Morello-that is my instinct-would be nice to be wrong for a change though! lol

[Octavius]

Sorry teag1rl but my wife saw the text and took my phone off me.

Ok, not really. I agree with everything Morello has said, some of raysparx's reply and partly what Champagne said.

[stylinsam]

never ever trust a man there all w^&^*^%rs im sorry to say lol. just give it time babe im sure hel txt u back!
and if he doesnt your sisters me and 4getmenot will have to go round there and beat him up! well, 4getmenot will eat him but thats ok!! as long as shes not after me i dont care lolxxx

[teag1rl]

lol, thanks Sam. I'll send you two round to sort him-he wont do it again!!

[teag1rl]

ooh, and you octavius. The other theory is that fact he's already taken. I seem to attract naughty boys lol

[cascarelli]

The only way to know is to ring him - if youre that desperate?! Or you could just put it down to experience and move on. If he was really interested he'd have rung you anyway

[teag1rl]

er, thanks, yeah, I'm not desperate-just wondered why the hell he bothered a)getting my number b) texting me.
Not into playing games!

[Champagne]

Any man who says he's not a b*stard is a b*stard and a liar. Hahahaha!

Treat 'em mean and keep 'em keen I say. Next time you meet a guy, state clearly and loudly that if he doesn't take you out for dinner within the next 2 days then he can forget it.

[nat_84]

Boys Will Be Boys - as i remember the Backstreet Boys once sang..... oh the good ol' days!

Anyway, i reckon you'll get a reply eventually - just make sure you dont text him again.

[teag1rl]

absoluteamondo-he'e been erased for the time being so I dont get any drunken textual urges!!!

[nat_84]

good idea..... intoxication and mobile phones dont go well.... when ur drunk: i think sense and sanity go straight out the window....i still call and harrass my boyfriend when ive been drinking.... lucky fella.....

[Betty Boop x]

My friend once pulled a guy on a Saturday night and she said to him on the night after they had kissed - "so what do you want from me?"

His response - "It's a Saturday night, what do you think I want from you?!"

Yep, harsh but true! I'm not sayin ALL men want that but I do think on a Saturday night in a bar or club, not many men are looking for anything remotely meaningful!?

But I agree that he shouldn't have really bothered textin at all because that gives you the wrong impression. If he hadn't text at all you would have been like - ok it was just a snog, but because he did text, you are looking into it more?!

Definatly move on, he hasn't tried hard enough to get you so don't bother wasting anymore time thinking about it!

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