Homophobic!!

[ChampagneMan]

The fear of homosexuals attacking or hitting on you. I confess that I am. Anyone else here too is scared?

[4getmenot]

why should you be, I'm a straight woman and I not in fear all the time of a man hitting on me, why should a straight guy be in fear of gay guys. Have you ever thought, he may not fancy you! And basically with an attitude like that I wouldnt either.

[ChampagneMan]

I'm sorry 4getmenot.. Please dont misunderstand me. I'm not aginst their preferences. Its just that I sometimes (pretty often) fear being hit on by a gang of homos. And that scares me!!

[ChampagneMan]

And trust me, many many other straight men share my fears!!!

[rom]

where do you live?
is there lots of gangs of homosexuals baying for your body?

[4getmenot]

If theres gangs of them after you then be scared, as yes that is no different than A gang after me. And I would be a bit scared. But if not why should you see homosexuals any different than heterosexuals. I can agree that you probably do have mates that are the same. I find that there are a lot more homophobic men than woman. Its usually the ones that don�t know much about it or havent got to know a homosexual person. Me and my bloke stay with a gay couple and because we have know them he will walk around in his boxers in the morning and doesn�t bother him at all. I take it you don�t know any personally?

[originalspa]

Why be scared? I usually find homophobia as either something that people don't understand or know enough about or they're closetted gays themselves!

Something you want to say?!! :)

[RATTER15]

Come on ChampaignMan, I think there is something you need to open up about here. The closet door is open you just need to walk through it.

[admarlow]

Im not scared at the moment, but if I ever go to Prison I will be!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[PinkFizz]

As RATTER15 says,admitting it is the hardest thing - but we are all here for you,just open up! ; 0 ) lol

[Carakeel]

Let me ask you this ... how often do you read in the newspapers of gangs of straight guys attacking people - well nearly every day! And ... how often do you read about gangs of gays attacking people? For that matter how often do you read of gays being in gangs?? Gays are not usually into gang culture in the first place. I have never heard of a straight guy being afraid of gangs of gays attacking him. Generally gays are not violent people, quite the contrary, but I'm sure there are exceptions as they are actually no different than the rest of us. So there may be some underlying issues you may have that you need to face and deal with. Or you need to be a bit more realistic and not so fearful. Good luck.

[Octavius]

You must have a high opinion of yourself to think that all gay men are attracted to you.

[cascarelli]

I know its wrong but I did have a chuckle at the thought of gangs of gay men roaming the streets - or should that be mincing?!!

[4getmenot]

Have you ever stopped to think of the amount of homosexuals that are scared for their life of homophobics like you.

[4getmenot]

If one does come onto you, why should it be any different than a woman. Most blokes say if a gay came onto them they�d beat them up, wow how macho. If a bloke came up to me that I really wasn�t interested in or I had a boyfriend, then I�d just say I�m flattered but I�m taken sorry not beat him up, the same as if a woman came onto me, can�t see why you need to be scared.

[Pippa68]

LOL @ cascarelli ~ I had exactly the same thought!

[Octavius]

I must admit, my youthful boy band looks often attract the attention of both sexes when I am out. A polite, 'sorry I'm not interested' for either approaches is usually enough to dismiss their advances.

Perseverance on their part is scary whatever the sex.

And yes, believe it or not I have been flattered, but alas have sadly turned down many an attractive person, man and woman.

[admarlow]

What about a gang bang, Ive heard that gays join them???

[admarlow]

p.s guys, I think champs was just having a joke....that you lot fell for.

[4getmenot]

Dont think so admarlow look at second post.

[CLOWN TICKLE]

No Im comfortable in the company of all types, my daughter says Im metrosexual