Life Defining Moments

[Eve]

What are your top 5 life definining moments, good or bad?

[TheTemptress]

carakeel...respect x

[larkin]

Carakeel. I wish I could hug you right now.
Losing a child, despite what I and others here have been through , is the worst thing i can imagine.
I agree that others have been very open about what they have disclosed tonight. Well done all.
My counsellor will either be proud of me or not when I speak to her on Monday . I am reliving my second defining moment big style at the mo.

[TheTemptress]

1. being told my brother in law died in a fire and then finding out my sis and her baby had survived.
2. a year later my dads sister was murdered
3. finding my father in the street, totally by chance walking past, when he tripped and fell and cracked his skull.
4. being with my father when he died/
5. loosing my kidney and going through the most awful pain waiting for the op
6. (sorry)..splitting from my hubby and then getting back and im so in love with him...waiting for my silver wedding which i hope will be on the list!

[Eve]

Thank you so much to all of you who have posted, I never imagined that the replies I got would touch me in such a way.

I never had the courage to come on here and post a question which involved admitting that I was raped and other bad things I'd rather forget but you've all helped me with your sharing without me even having to do that.

A big heartfelt thank you xxx

[larkin]

Jenna . Did I misread you posting ? If I didn't and you need anything just say . I will post you my e mail if i can be of help.

[Eve]

Awww, thank you, no you didn't misread honey, just that reading you all sharing such personal moments of such awful things made me feel a little less alone in the things that have happened to me :)

Has encouraged me to get some help which I've probably needed for a long time, after initially letting it destroy me in so many ways I have buried it for such a long time and I think maybe now is the time to begin the healing.

I'm on [email protected] if you or anyone else wants to chat xxx

[Carakeel]

Jenna and Larkin, please feel free to email me at [email protected]. I would like to help. I have been there and know how you must feel. I was not quite 13 at the time. There is nothing life can throw at me anymore that I cannot face, so if I can help in any way at all, please use that email and we can talk on msn if you like. Take courage. Big hugs to you both!

[dan no1]

Carakeel, i just read your post and it brought tears to my eyes. i admire your courage.
being only 20 i dont have many life defining moments, just one bad one when my dad died last year i was devastated.

[RATTER15]

Well done Jenna1978, I bet that took some guts to say that on here babes, you got my respect!! My best wishes with you always!!

[larkin]

Jenna. I will mail u if that ok with you ? 2 morrow.

[larkin]

Carakeel. Posted before saw yours. Thank you .
Will be in touch .

[Eve]

Thank you Carakeel and Ratter, it means a lot xxx

[B00]

What a wonderful post you've created Jenna- the bravery of you, larkin,Carakeel and everyone else has left me gobsmacked.

Take care :-)

xxxxxxxx

[Eve]

Larkin, that would be great, look forward to it x

[Eve]

Awww Boo, I'm quite overwhelmed, I'd had just the most amazing replies :) x

[-Zorro-]

Hi Jenna & Larkin..hope you are both stronger for your misfortunes and not self depreciating and scarred.

Life throws sh!te at you and you have to cope...dont let people destroy you.

I myself have only recently come to the obvious conclusion, due to research, that I have a condition known as Aspergers Syndrome. Not consulted a doctor yet. It makes life quite tough for me. Things that are easy for others are hard for me.

Now I know whats wrong, Im determined to be a success despite the hurdles. I can only say things like this when im p!ssed.

All the best

xxx

[Eve]

Hey Zorro, well you're among friends, seems so many of us have been through it. It must be very hard for you.

There must be some good support groups out there honey, maybe online ones if that's easier for you if you have Aspergers depending on how it affects you.

If you need to chat i'm here, my address is above xxx

[joby1]

love you all too.

[Agent_Smith]

this post is hard reading and my heart goes out to you all, its when you read something like this that you realise what others have gone through and it makes your own problems seem a little smaller!!