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Sorry Gevs1966 you totally got the wrong idea...I have not ignored him once - you'll see in my post I mention that I don't like my texts being ignored, and wouldn't do it to someone else. I just hadn't got in touch with him as I had no free time and didn't want to mess him around - in fact if anything I should have expected a response from him as the last text came from me. You have also assumed wrongly that I don't want to be friends with him - yet that's the whole point of my post! I do want to be friends with him... that was my dilemma, as I feel he's behaving as if the 'more than friends' thing has started, due to what he said about 'embarrassment'. IMO I reckon if he wanted to be friends only he wouldn't worry about that, or whether we were in contact every second day. I don't want to give him the wrong idea, and have been straight with him about this at all levels. I was hoping for some suggestions as I haven't been out and about 'single' for very long, and have no practice as to how to do it. I've always had lots of male friends,; many of which I've known for years, but I'm now finding it's difficult to make new male friends as once they find out I'm single quite often they want something else (not all of them of course - please don't take me wrong in that sense, I'm not trying to show off here in any way). In lots of ways it was easier to meet men and get on with them when I had a partner!