Who says sorry first?

[PinkFizz]

When you have a row with your other half do you end up saying sorry,or just forgetting the row ,just to keep the peace, whether you are right or wrong or are you stubborn and act cool and offish until they apologise??

[PinkFizz]

awww I like that - little pink angel!

Yeh,I think I have the same bloke as tradey - he is never wrong !!

I know he has a hell of a lot on his plate at the mo but so do we all and I would never ever shout at him like that.Yet like tradey says,if I give him the cold shoulder when he gets in till he says sorry then I will be waiting here till xmas!

[noxlumos]

Although I'm never wrong (lol), my wife and I only ever argue over really important things ( probably 10 or so serious rows in our whole ten years together) so when we do, it does get very heated as it's very important to us.That being said, both of us are quite sensible and don't let the row in question spill over into other areas of our lives, as it gets destructive then. If I am wrong or borderline wrong I'll apologise as will she, but mostly we just agree to differ and niether apologises as we both genuinely think we are right if we bother to have a row about it.

[indie_chic]

I have always said sorry. It was dads advice when I was very young, I used to watch mum tell him off for no reason and he would just say sorry. I asked him why he did, and he said it gives me an easy life and shes happy cause she thinks shes won.