guys are you ever scared?

[milo1978]

to get into a relationship that you know could potentially be either the one or very serious?

Ive met a guy and the connection we have is out of this world, we literally sit in pubs for 8 hrs without a second of being bored, chatting none stop.

I was surprised because he told me that although we have the connection he wants to stay friends. I know we havent actually known each other that long-about 6 wks and we're wrk colleagues (never a good idea) but I was surprised that he didnt want more.

[Octavius]

Rather than being scared of a relationship or commitment, is it just possible he doesn't fancy you in that way, maybe he doesn't find you physically attractive?

There could be many reasons that he might not want to share with you, but it doesnt mean he (or every bloke on the planet) is scared.

[ELVIS68]

Sounds like he wants you as a drinking buddy

[milo1978]

thanks fro the bluntness but no thats not it, he's made it clear that he would be very happy to get it on-just not in a relationship type way-which i obviously did not agree to!

[spk]

could there be another woman in his life just now?

[ELVIS68]

Now your talking...He`d be very happy to get it on but not in a relationship type way?
He wants you as a F**k buddy, and thats being honest ,not blunt

[milo1978]

nah he's single, we plan to travel together when we've saved up the cash, that was another of his reasons that we could ruin our travel plans by becoming more

[spk]

It sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it to me