Whats wrong with me?

[Amiira]

Split up from long time partner. He has moved on quickly. Made me think that I could of not been that special. Even though I always thought I was.

I am busy with work etc, but now resigned to the fact that I will never meet anyone. I work in an office with all women. I dont fancy dating sites. And have a poor social life due to family commitments.

Am I destined to be alone forever?

My ex relationship has left my self esteem in shatters.

[ELVIS68]

Can you not go out with the women in the office once or twice a month?

[wonderwoman1]

i'm in the same situation Amiira, although my ex wasn't a very nice person, but I have come to the conclusion i will be "left on the shelf".I go out with my friends most weekends, but most of them are partnered up. When i do meet a guy i find it difficult to accept that he might actually like me and i scare them off...all because of my past relationships.
I am thinking of joining a night class, for what i dont know yet! but i am hoping i will meet some new people to go out with...might be worth a try!

[filthiestfis]

LOL please maybe you arent such a nice person after all WW

[laho pia]

Maybe he wasnt the special one Amiira..

I recommend night classes in whatever takes your fancy at the time, maybe convince one of the girls at work to go with you the first time if you're not comfortable going alone.

Friends of friends is also a good way of meeting people too.

[4getmenot]

theres a few of us abers up on this shelf, room for you if you want :-) How old are you? You could always try a new club or hobbie to meet someone, if not I think ELVIS68 has a great idea there, surely that would be a great laugh all you girlys out on the town. But just remember having a boyfriend wont give you self esteem and maybe you need to get that back first and have fun as you for a bit :-) If not theres always a guy on here called salisbury who's looking :-)

[4getmenot]

ah I see from your other relationship questions you are 44, oh well salisbury may like the older woman :-) The long distance relationship didnt work out then?

[PinkFizz]

Amiira,Im very sorry that your relationship didnt work out,but please believe me when I say that you will not be alone forever.
I can out of the most dreadful relationship.I had teenege children,a son of 5 and thought I would never ever meet anybody again at the age of 37.Then one day I went for a routine job interview,and the boss who interviewed me and I fell in love and we are still together - in fact,it is 2 years today since that interview!
So there is hope for us all.

[Hellion]

I'm sorry your feeling so low Amiira.
I'm fortunate as I am happily married we have a lovely 32 year old Triumph Stag which we take to Classic car shows. I always maintain that if I was looking for another man I'd take myself off to the shows in my car. They are such a lovely crowd of people and a few of of them are single!
So, buy your self a little classic car and get out there and knock em dead.
BTW I have several male friends who are 40 and bemoan the fact they never meet any nice women so they are out there Honest!!

[mandimoo]

here, have a hug xxx

[Amiira]

Thanks everyone. Yes was a bit 'woe is me'

Thanks for your comments everyone xx