Hmmm, NikkiB , i think your being a little hard on her. I think this lady is a very lonely and sad person. I dont think she will have a partner, and i think she lives at home alone. I think she has that attitude because she is hurting inside. She probably sees everyone else with a good life, and probably sees you and your lifestyle as someone she would like to be. This makes her angry inside and although she might give off the impression that she doesnt care about anything, i think she does. Maybe she has grown bitter and twisted because of something that has happened in her life. Why not take the time to try and have conversations with her and let slip about the things you hate about her as a joke. But if you dont want to make friends with her then just write stuff about her in the toilets...