I am taking a break.

[Ward-Minter]

Folks wishing you goodbye for a few days. Whilst I take the rise out of most things, I have just been subjected to horrific nastiness by carakeel and ratter over the death of my wife. I have retailated with nastiness, but I was provoked. For the first time on here, the Ward-Minter has been beaten.

See you soon.

PdeBC RIP my lovely, the evil on here is not for your ears. XxX

[RATTER15]

Lightoftruth, I hope he never shows his face on here again.

[lightoftruth]

well i just hope someone replaces his better qualaties....i was always reminded of simon cowell when i thought of him....he is hated by a lot of people but he does cut through the **** and say whats on his mind....

heres the "taming" i reffered to....

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Q uestion272989-18.html

[RATTER15]

The side effect of Wardy, is knowing that if you show a vulnerable side like I did when I mentioned I had a severely epileptic Daughter and a disabled partner and when carakeel mentioned that she had lost a son to a brain tumor. All this information is soaked up by wardy to be used as a weapon to beat you with should you fall out with him or criticise him in any way.

Its a shame that we cannot share a loss on here without the fear of wardy using that information to insult us at a later date. I know some people see it as tongue in cheek, but please!! its not!!! He has a huge chip on his shoulder.

[dot.hawkes]

yes ratter he probably has, it may be to do with being robbed of his new wife at a hidiously young age.

[whiffey]

I always believed that grief bred compassion.

[noxlumos]

To be honest this really has to stop.
Wardy, Ratter and Carakeel dig away at each other's grief until they are raw.
Can you not all just agree to ignore one another?
I have seen in the past all three say things that would be better unsaid, can you not all stop rejoicing in one another's misery?
Wardy understandably feels terrible about what has happened to him, as does Carakeel so why the hell does this have to happen?
I read the full posts of the link that's submitted with now some of the posts deleted and it has a very different complexion with them all there.
Can you not just please apologise to one another, since even if you loathe each other, your dead loved ones have no blame in this.

[daisy48]

Well as its been said "What goes around comes around". I have never ever come across such a vile person as WM. The poisen he spewed showed just how cruel he was such as wishing cancer on ab'rs and their loved ones not to mention making cheap unkind and upsetting remarks about the disabled and he says he's a Christian! If any of you have been the victim of WM's sick remarks you'll understand my delight at his departure form AB. I dont wish you well and I hope you never come back. Now go and really get a life. Byeeeeeee

[RATTER15]

Dot, I have shown him every sympathy for his wife, and despite what he says I have never said anything detrimental about her, he is not the only person to have lost people to illness but he is the only person to use someones loss as a stick to beat people in such a savage way. I'm sorry dot, there is no sticking up for this man, he is just so nasty it is beyond belief!!!

[bobtheturkey]

throw your laptops and pcs away there is a world beyond your net curtains people

[RATTER15]

Well said Daisy48!!!

[RATTER15]

Nox, I would never stoop low enough to be cruel about someones loss, not my style!! only Wardy can do that!!

[RATTER15]

None of my replies have been banned check them out for yourself, I got nothing to hide.

[noxlumos]

RATTER I'm very sorry to disagree with you, but I have seen both yourself, Crete and Carakeel make, granted, more subtle digs, but digs none the less,at Wardy about his wife.
I don't want to be drawn into this and I agree that very often he should not say what he does, but if you figure yourself to be truly the better man, why respond in kind? Whatever does this accomplish?

[daisy48]

Thanks Ratter! I only wrote the truth. I was attacked by wm for a long time,he got to me and knew it! He does'nt bother me anymore but I still have the memory of how I felt thanks to his pus filled remarks. Bob whether face to face or virtual nobody has the right to wish cancer or any other illness's on others and call people "Paedo's " without valid proof. Then again I doubt wm would like to come face to face with many on here. Good riddance to bad rubbish I say!

[dot.hawkes]

Tut i paid a fortune for these vertical blinds.

[RATTER15]

Sorry Nox you are wrong, but you always stick up for wardy don't you, that gives your comments little validity.
Like I said before my answers are there to read, only his were banned.

[RATTER15]

lol @ dot

[bobtheturkey]

nurse! bring the trolley!!!

[noxlumos]

RATTER I try to be fair above all other things, I hope most people on here who have known me for longer than you have will recognise that ,and I have argued venemously with wardy in the past and am the first one to say what he says to hurt people is wrong but perhaps you do not realise that your own posts sometimes come across as hate filled as well on occasions. You are a a very last word chap, if you don't mind my saying so, and hate others to disagree with you, resorting if they do, to unpleasant insults. I have been on the receiving end of those, but I have not allowed it to bother me unduly unlike wardy who gets riled. Why can you not do the same thing with wardy, that I did with you and just ignore the remarks that you don't like? You and I converse moderately pleasantly because you can't have an argument on your own.

[RATTER15]

I agree with you Nox, some of the thing I have said to wardy is full of hate, can you blame me after the dreadful things he has said about my Daughter and my partner!! but I have never said anything against his wife.

I don't have a problem with you Nox, yes we have had our differences, and I put that behind me, gone!!

But why should anybody take the garbage that is spewed out by wardy, it is offensive to any decent person and can only drag the Answer Bank into the gutter with his comments.