ugh!! dam men!!

[Blyss]

My hubby has started a new job this week, so I had to go shopping on our very very limited budget , hes so not pleased with what I got ,, no ..its not only that ...its the weeks layin time and oh I supose just everything thats gettin him down and when hes down I get mad and upset cus I think hes blaming me for everything!! I have 2 kids that I dont get any welfare support for in any way..and I have had them here all week as well ..and there here again all weekend ..we are happy about it ..but its really stressin us out ..foodwise ..money wise n all that..{long story!!} Not only that ..my 19 yr old son now has a girlfriend and hes bringing her round to my house every single night and there having sex in his room !!!! We can hear the dam bed going ten to a dozen ...and its really really doing our heads in ...~breathssssssss~ I am so peed off right now ..I could spit up my bones!!!!

[bobtheturkey]

i am extremely irritable myself tonight if i had a footi match i would be breaking limbs

[oldwoman]

Are you english, only I`ve never heard spit up my bones before.

[Blyss]

no Im scottish ..I just made up spittin up my bone when I was posting.

[RATTER15]

Tell your Son that your home is not a knocking shop!!

[oldwoman]

I like it,could be a new catch phrase. I know what you mean. Mines long distance and I get in a deep depression on a Friday when he`s due back. You have enough on your plate without the 19 year old can`t they go to her house.

[Blyss]

nope by the sounds of it ..her father isnt a very nice person ..infact tonight she turned up here witha dam bag of clothes .., shes not froma poor home either,,her hairdo ..cost her �350 ..mom has her own shop and stuff.
I think its mostly the fact there in my house running up the fone and heating bills and like I said right now we are skint.
Im not used to having my son in the house everynight eitehr hes normally round at a mates house..now hes here all the time ..its driving us mental.

[laurence2]

send them round to her parents then?

At least your get some piece, and save a few quid, i would'nt tolerate it full stop.

Where does respect start in regards to your house being used as a knocking shop, cafe etc

Whilst you and your husband ''sit back'' and let them get away with things, you've no chance.

[Blyss]

I know ..we have done the ground rules so to speak ...she has to leave by 10.30 durin the week .and no sexin when my 2 younger kids are here . tonight the 2 wee ones are away at there dads and I swear I was scared to into my own hallway!

[laurence2]

Scared to in my hallway?


Meaning?

[Blyss]

scared to go into my hallway...cus I can heard them doin it ..louder ..lol

[laurence2]

we've all been there at some point ?

Are they still at it then? lol

[oldwoman]

Right my danders up now. Tell him in no uncertain terms its not on. If he doesn`t like it he knows where the door is.

[Blyss]

lol there not doin it now ..My husband went to bed at 9.30 ..just to pi$$ them off and she left about 20 mins ago.

[laurence2]

Give em a taste of there own medicine?

And for good measure, walk around the house Bo!!ox naked, if nothing else, it might embarrass your son into bringing the girlfriend around everynight. lol

[Blyss]

no chance Laurance ..lmao ..If I passed a mirror myself in the nude i would scare the imagine in it so bad it would go black from fear!!

[Goodsoulette]

Make him pay rent, and an extra fiver a night for every time she stays.

[laurence2]

There you go then, if the mirror turns black with fear, imagine the look on the girlfriends face lol

[Bohne]

Sounds like you don't want advice, you just want to ramble and shout for a while!
:o)

And I guess you are dead right here!
Just get it all out of your system.
Then sit down with your husband and son, to talk about the things that can actually be changed.
Only do that after you are done with the rambling, though!

[Blyss]

your half right Bohne ..!! I did just wana complain and loudly!!

I did sit my son down last night and tell him ..yet again I heard them at it ,, he didnt even have the grace to blush! ..wee ****.
As a scot I like the idea somone came up with for the extra fiver every night she stays ..great idea ...Ill be using that one.

thanks guys