turmoil

[wizzer]

my partner has just told me that they dont love me anymore. we have been together 5 years, they are my life we have 2 kids, I feel like someone has just stuck a knife in my heart, I have never felt pain like it, Its like someone has just ripped my heart into two. My life consists of my family and now its been ripped apart that i dont know what to do, They have just gone to work and i have to carry on as normal infront of the kids. I dont know how i'm gonna cope. I gave up my family for this person. I now have no-one They will take the kids and I will move out.

[4getmenot]

I�m sorry to hear that wizzer, I know you may not be able to but try and look at the good things in this, they have been honest with you and told you, some people go on living a miserable unhappy life because they cant be open about things and things just carry on because that�s how its �supposed� to be. Do you still love this person or is it just routine and because you have a family. How old are your children?

[redcrx]

wizzer,
I am so sorry but i cant offer any advice. Ive been in that situation but without kids so i really cant help.
Just wanted to send you lots of virtual hugs to give you the strength to get through today until you can sit and talk things through properly with your partner xx

[mandimoo]

hopefully its a cry for help to repair the relationship. try to talk calmly and positively about what might be done to resolve this. you poor soul, big hug xx

[wizzer]

boy 4 daughter 2

[unruliejulie]

I can't really offer you any advice but a big hug is coming your way wizzer, so very sorry for you.
((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((( XXX )))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

[sleepyj]

its not very nice for any off u im sorry 2 say .but its life thing can go bad .have u been 2 relate?

[sleepyj]

what do u mean they will take kids ?

[wizzer]

unruliejulie myspace msg

[Suzyboo]

Do you normally hav a different name on here?

[4getmenot]

sorry but why will they take kids? and I know this still doesnt help but they are still young so rather than making this about your children sit back and try and talk and see him you can work it out. I dont know your situation but maybe if you argue alot its for the best and the best for the children while they are still too young to realise

[sleepyj]

is he seeing some one else sorry 2 ask

[wizzer]

yes i do.

I will have nowhere 2 go so thats y i wont have my children

[wizzer]

no one else involved i think!

[4getmenot]

sleepj you have just assumed it is a man leaving and that wizzer is female, how do you know. wisser are you female, what is your situation?

[sleepyj]

maybe he has problems he cant talk about men dont talk much about how they feel.has he been acting odd lately like staying out and stuff .whatshe like with mobile phone does he keep it away from u?

[sleepyj]

sorry im lost i dont know who who now sorry

[wizzer]

i'm male. i dont have any contact with my family. my partner and kids were my family, well my kids will always be. I have no where to go. i have no friends i have nothing left.

[4getmenot]

dont get yourself thinking about whether he's (if it is a he) cheating or not, you need to concentrate on what you are going to do next, dont dig up more dirt. No person has a right to stop you seeing your children. Have you ended this as mates or is it difficult?

[Suzyboo]

If there really is no salvaging the relationship then you need to focus on getting work and a place to live nearby so you can still play a big part in the kids lives. However, as someone else suggested, it may be worth trying to get her to go to relate with you to try and work things out

[wizzer]

im male. She told me this and walked out. she is now in work till 12.30am