making up

[stylinsam]

hi guys me and my fella had a big row last night which was totally my fault. what happened was we were Ahem,,,, getting jiggy hehe, and i could here my phone going of as a message (now my neice is in hospital having some tests) so i wanted to check to see if was any news , anyway i looked at my phone and it was my mate (who my bf doesnt no)!!, anyway i went back upstairs and i just said oh it was my mum, just so i didnt have to explain who this mate was as we were in the middle of something!!, anyway a bit later on when i went for a bath, my fella read my messages and said whos sarah(the mate who txt me) so i explained and he said are you sure about that, i said yeh why, he said so why did u tell me that txt was from your mum when it wasnt!! so it looks like im hiding something do u no what i mean? but really i just couldnt be bothered to go through who it was. now he thinks this person is another man, so we rung her last night and it was her obviously, but he said if i lied to him about who it was what else am i lying about!, iv told him hes reading to much into it. but he says i dont no if i can trust you now. and we havnt spoken since.
so my question is i wanna make it up to him, but without looking like im in the wrong and im lying about who this person is?
(i no messed up ;o( )

[stylinsam]

sorry i dont no where it went!!

[4getmenot]

Well I shall start again without making myself look dumb. I think he is over-reacting, I would have made him feel bad for reading my messages in first place. Let him sulk he�ll soon get over it when he wants more jiggy :-)

[liquidspace]

If you rung this mate and he heard her voice then he shouldnt still be suspicious. I can understand why he got suspicious but am thinking that as he now knows you were not lying to him, he should be ok with you. I guess he got a little insecure for whatever reason, hopefully not a sign that HE is playing around (probably wrong there).

[snagged]

He shouldn't have read your texts...

You shouldn't have 'white lied' him...

You're both at fault...

I suggest you 'get jiggy' together all weekend (as it's going to be so bloody cold anyway) to make it up to each other!... : )

[makemesmile]

Ok, so you lied and he caught you out. But it wasn't that big a deal - I can understand why u took the quick explaination, and so should he. You said it was a mate so that you could rush back to continue the 'fun' with him! Maybe if you explain the reason u rushed away in the 1st place was 'cause you were worried about your niece's tests. But I have to say, it didn't take much to destroy his trust, did it! Sounds like he's got more going on in his head than he's letting on. Try asking him why it took a silly thing like this to send him off the deep end. Good luck : )

[Waaii]

Cumon chaps, there are so many much bigger problems out there, time sorts out most little ones if you wait a bit.

[4getmenot]

Yer you�re gonna make up anyway, he isn�t gonna dump you because of this so what is the point arguing.

[stylinsam]

i agree thanks guys xxxxxxxxxxxxx