Have you ever?

[counsellor]

Felt really close to a person of the oposite sex althought being hapily married and you don't feel pysically attracted to the friend person but have a connection or feel at ease with them....

[devilwoman]

yes i did years ago, he was a single bloke and a great friend but secretly i did have feelings for him.

[luckyeight]

Isn't that called having a friend?

[counsellor]

not in my hubbys eyes if he found out

[ummmm]

yes

[liquidspace]

Definately. I also believe its possible to love more than one person at a time (apparently called Polyamory according to the sunday papers!)

[chicklin]

I've found there's usually an element of attraction on the part of one of the people involved.