Redcrx...

[sair5412]

It came today!!! Woo hoo!!!! Thanks for your replies and your support.
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[liquidspace]

Relief eh? Join the club, me too today! Aint this site wonderful for just letting off steam and sounding off etc.

[redcrx]

mine came 2 days ago, along with the winter vomitting virus (lucky me eh?)

Am celebrating with you though cos mine was already 13 days late and i was bricking it as well :)

[sair5412]

Yey! We're all happy today then! In a sadistic kind of way! Coz i'm actually in pain but it's all good!!! Ha ha!! Liquidspace, it is a great site but sometimes people can be a bit judgemental or get funny about coming on just to sound off. (Where's the question?? they say) Most people on here are lovely and it can be a great place of support.

What's we all up to tonight then? (there's the question!)

[redcrx]

well Im staying at home feeling sorry for myself. Was supposed to be going to visit relatives this weekend but my boyfriend has gone alone with little CRX instead so i get to have house to myself all weekend, no toddler and no boyfriend. Theyve been gone half hour and already i miss them both. Sad eh?

How will you be celebrating Sair?

[liquidspace]

Well for me this site certainly relivees my dull office work day - am working alone today which I like cos I can do what I like basically (handy too being the boss!)

Tonight - Hmm, trying to compete for staying awake against my partner who has spent the whole day in bed as its his day off. He'll be wide awake watching the Ashes tonight and I will be so shattered I will have to go to bed (hate going to bed when he is still up - have a 'thing' about it)

[sair5412]

Liquid space, i used to feel left out if my boyf stayed up and i went to bed!!- werid isnt it!!!

Redcrx, get a friend round and enjoy a bottle of wine and a giggle while you are free from boyf and toddler!- it only makes sense!!

Well, I am going on my second date! I met a guy (shhhhhh- on the internet!!! Something which is so not me!) We met up last sunday and i was pleasantly surprised so we are meeting up again tonight. Thing is, he lives 2 junctions down the motorway so will have to stay at my house. My son is at his nana's, otherwise there'd be no chance. But i don't feel right him sleeping in my bed. How do i tell him without sounding like a complete nun?

(p.s i have seen the website of the company where he works, my mum knows the estate agency of which his mum owns, i have his phone number and one of my friends has met him so he can't murder me without being traced!!!)

[redcrx]

nice thought but wouldnt want to give friend this bug.

just tell the guy that hes in spare room / on sofa / in garden. He will understand and wont try and pressure you if hes as decent as he came across on your first date.

Make sure that you keep contact with your friend a couple of times in eve just to play safe tho

[sair5412]

Garden!! Ha ha!! Yes i'll just say it. If he doesnt like it, he can lump it. He seems like a respectful guy though and i'm sure he will respect me more for it.

I will be in touch with a friend throughout the night, don't worry.

Why don't you get yourself a dvd and a hot water bottle and snuggle up? Bit of peace and quiet. Don't know where you are in the country but its p*ssing down and horrible here!

[raysparx1]

What have you got today ? can I have one or is it a girly thingy ?? xx

[sair5412]

Ray, you wouldn't want one!! Seriously! ha ha!! Ah, do you feel all left out??

[redcrx]

Ray, auntie Flo has come to visit!

Sair, tell him about spare room before he has a drink so he can turn around and go home if he gets annoyed at it (not that he will)

and yeah its peeing down here too.

[liquidspace]

Hey Sair - enjoy ! you lucky thing
I have met someone from the internet and it was great fun. Why not have a couple of drinkies with him, see how it goes, the fact that you will not sleep with him at the moment will only strengthen his opinion of you

[raysparx1]

Hello sair, I don't know,can I eat it ? I do feel left out,but sometimes it is better to be left out, is it best if I don't ask ? xx

[raysparx1]

Auntie Flo Red ? she sounds kinda scary, is she like fag ash Lil ? or is auntie Flo a girly name for a once a month visitor ? god I am so thick xx

[sair5412]

Ray, best if you don't ask!! And no you can't eat it! Yak!

Good idea, i will tell him on the phone before he sets off about the sleeping arrangements.

Liquidspace, did you have a relationship with the guy you met? How long did it last?

[liquidspace]

Well it wasnt a relationship, more a couple of meetings if you know what I mean, we went to a concert in London - he was quite younger than me, it was a bit of fun, still friends but he has a girlfriend now.

[redcrx]

Sair, enjoy it girl! I met a few guys on the net before my wonderful boyfriend. Just be honest and careful hun at all times.

Ive never looked back and can certainly say that internet dating changed my life.

[4getmenot]

redcrx is a hussy

[redcrx]

pmsl :)

[sair5412]

Cool. Well, i think it is more common than people are prepared to admit. It's not as geeky as it used to be. It's better than meeting someone in a club when you're both drunk, end up snogging before you even know where he's from!! (4getmenot- i'm a hussy too!) lol