"chemistry"

[liquidspace]

Have any of you met someone of the opposite sex and been SO drawn to them and you dont particularly know why. If you happen to stand next to them you feel something between you, or you talk to them and you cannot take your eyes off theirs.

My feeling is so strong that I think surely the other person must automatically be feeling the same thing. When you feel this "chemistry" - do you think the other person cannot fail to feel it too?

[joko]

unfortunately, i think most of the time this one sided - and what, to you, seems like ' a moment', is probably just in your head.

if you are with someone, and you are looking into their eyes, they will likely look back at you and smile - unless you are being really weird and they are a bit freaked.

most people will be a little bit freaked if someones eyes are boring into theirs and look back and try to assess whats happening - so this could be misconstrued as a mutual feeling.

it can happen of course, but I have had a guy trying to smoulder at me and imply a kind of special bond - and i just felt creeped, but i reckon he thought there was something special there.

i have also felt a 'vibe' or 'chemistry' with someone, sure they felt it too, only to have them be completely uninterested.

[liquidspace]

Oh ;o( I feel a bit miserable now. I guess I want this person to like me and I really dont know if they do or not. I think if someone really did then they would find some way to let you know.

[4getmenot]

Like telepathy? Just tell them liquidspace, go on be a daredevil :-)

[liquidspace]

well we've been texting and I've given him a strong indication ! Hasnt taken the bait though.

[ummmm]

I was talking about a person I have met and actually know quite well in my first answer. For various reasons nothing could come of it