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What is a decent number?
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Ok guys, You have started seeing a new woman and it comes down to the number question of how many sexual partners she has had prior to you. (obviously all of them crap compared to you naturally) :-)
What would be a decent number to you and what would make you think she was a Ho ?
For argument sake, we shall say this woman is late twenties.
What would be a decent number to you and what would make you think she was a Ho ?
For argument sake, we shall say this woman is late twenties.
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i aint a bloke but i had to answer! haha
12? that isn't alot at all. i say around 20-30.
late twenties she is about 25-29. say she started having sex at around 15-16 (not too far off the mark these days that is it really?) that would make it between 1 - 4 people a year - that aint a lot of people at all, i don't think anyway. i hope i worked my maths out right haha - probally not though knowing me lol!
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12? that isn't alot at all. i say around 20-30.
late twenties she is about 25-29. say she started having sex at around 15-16 (not too far off the mark these days that is it really?) that would make it between 1 - 4 people a year - that aint a lot of people at all, i don't think anyway. i hope i worked my maths out right haha - probally not though knowing me lol!
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Ok I wasn't making any judgements, badgerchops asked what would be a decent number and that's my opinion.
However after reading the replies, I would be concerned if it was as high as 30 ~ I'd wonder what's whats wrong with her? Why has she had so many partners?
ConfusedMum ~ You say 4 a year ( a new sleeping partner every three months that's one every 13 weeks!) so that implies there hasn't been a long term partner ~ Two words ALARM BELLS!!! either she has a problem with commitment or she's easy. I'd be sure to wait a while before I took the plunge with her. STDs are very prevelant among those with a high percentage of partners per annum.
However after reading the replies, I would be concerned if it was as high as 30 ~ I'd wonder what's whats wrong with her? Why has she had so many partners?
ConfusedMum ~ You say 4 a year ( a new sleeping partner every three months that's one every 13 weeks!) so that implies there hasn't been a long term partner ~ Two words ALARM BELLS!!! either she has a problem with commitment or she's easy. I'd be sure to wait a while before I took the plunge with her. STDs are very prevelant among those with a high percentage of partners per annum.
Doesn't matter. They could all be one night stands, recreational sex, who don't mean a damned thing. Doesn't matter if it's into treble figures to be honest. Once you meet the one and find someone you love and want to commit to then that'll be it. If you want someone with the same morals as you have then you need to make this clear at the VERY beginning, because tbh how many partners she had prior to you is none of your business. Relax, it's irrelevant and a high number does not make a woman a "Ho", just someone secure in their own sexuality.
Badgerchops, you've just underlined why you had to ask such an inane question in the first place, and can you tell me how a woman whose had say 100 partners over ten years is going to be any more "saggy holed" than a woman who'd been with the same man for ten years?
I've never felt the need to ask anyone as I'm quite secure in myself, although my wife and I whilst talking once divulged she'd had 22 previous partners.
Was I upset or pleased? No because as stated before it was before I met her, she's wonderful and it's none of my business. It shows a controlling nature and a lack of respect for your partner's privacy and it'll send women running from you like greyhounds.
I've never felt the need to ask anyone as I'm quite secure in myself, although my wife and I whilst talking once divulged she'd had 22 previous partners.
Was I upset or pleased? No because as stated before it was before I met her, she's wonderful and it's none of my business. It shows a controlling nature and a lack of respect for your partner's privacy and it'll send women running from you like greyhounds.