Walking away from a relationship.

[Miss Inquiry]

What are the hardest things you find about walking away from a relationship and what generally makes you decide enough is enough? Do you ever see a pattern emerging?

[angel-cake]

The hardest thing for me leaving my ex (of six years) was that i still had a lot of love for him. But the fact that he didnt want to grow up (out drinking all the time etc) made me realise that i didnt want to live like that for the rest of my life. It was a really difficult decision.

Maybe when/if he does grow up a bit, we might have more in common again. who knows. I'll just go with what happens. If it doesnt happen, then i'll still know i made the right decision.

[ummmm]

No pattern with me. Except I happened to chose men that accidently sleep with someone else.

I don't find it hard to walk away from a relationship but worry sometimes that I maybe making a mistake

But not with the blokes that cheat........I would know that I was not making a mistake with them

[boro1986]

Good job i dont cheat then Ummmm, but agree once a cheat always a cheat

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, the hardest things i find about walking away from a relationship is the waste of time i feel i put into it. For me to decide enough is enough is when i find out someone has been deceiptful or lying to me(even if its at the beginning). My pattern is always the same. i cant seem to forgive or forget. Once someone has done something wrong, then thats it, i just bring it up in every argument. Also, i lose trust once i have an idea in my head. And without trust, i cant be with someone...