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im 17 and 8 weeks pregnant.im trying to decide weither to keep the baby or have a abortion.
if you have been pregnant and didnt no what to decide
how did u decide and what was it like?
thanks x
if you have been pregnant and didnt no what to decide
how did u decide and what was it like?
thanks x
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pregnant-s, i read your previous thread and unfortunatley as you are aware it was taken over by others.
Only you can decide what to do, but in answer to your question, I was pregnant and didn't know what to do, my then boyfriend stated that he didnt know what he would be doing in 2 years time and therefore it would be better if i didn't have the baby. As I was unsure I went along with his decision and had an abortion.
This decision destroyed my life for several years leaving me with severe guilt and physological problems. I am ok now after counselling but if you decide to go for an abortion please, please, please look into all aspects of it first and ensure that there is after care available, not so much medical aftercare but counselling.
Good luck with whatever you decide.
warpig1 XXXX
Only you can decide what to do, but in answer to your question, I was pregnant and didn't know what to do, my then boyfriend stated that he didnt know what he would be doing in 2 years time and therefore it would be better if i didn't have the baby. As I was unsure I went along with his decision and had an abortion.
This decision destroyed my life for several years leaving me with severe guilt and physological problems. I am ok now after counselling but if you decide to go for an abortion please, please, please look into all aspects of it first and ensure that there is after care available, not so much medical aftercare but counselling.
Good luck with whatever you decide.
warpig1 XXXX
i know its too late now, but i really wish you had taken precautions before having sex, i take it you are physically well in mind and body, this pregnancy will not kill you or harm anyone?
except the baby. it is not a game. it is a human life you're threatening to destroy, you will not like this at all, but if you're grown up enough to have relationships and sex, you should both you and the father should be mature enough to take the consequences. could you not have the baby adopted to parents who will give it love and everything it deservs.
except the baby. it is not a game. it is a human life you're threatening to destroy, you will not like this at all, but if you're grown up enough to have relationships and sex, you should both you and the father should be mature enough to take the consequences. could you not have the baby adopted to parents who will give it love and everything it deservs.
i think that you will get many varying answers on B&S and a obviously didnt get put off by the arguments the other day. Youve also asked this on family
If the father is so unreliable that he is getting girls pregnant all over the shop then really hes in no position to be a father.
As ive already said on your post on 'family' you need counselling from an organisation like brook. They will be able to give you lots of information.
If the father is so unreliable that he is getting girls pregnant all over the shop then really hes in no position to be a father.
As ive already said on your post on 'family' you need counselling from an organisation like brook. They will be able to give you lots of information.
