Love

[carmelbaby]

Can anyone answer this? Ok you are with someone you really love ok you say I Love U and the other person doesn't say it back until you ask do they Love U and then they say yeah.. I need hepl with this problem.

[efc]

Whats the question?

If you mean does the other person love u then i'd say possibly not. Although it could be that they just aren't very good at expressing their feelings.

Maybe you put that person on the spot and they just couldn't answer at that time with the response you wanted to hear!

[rugeleyboy]

he sounds like me!!!!!!!!!!

[megan07]

Hi carmelbaby i am not to suer if i can answer your question correctly but i have been with my partner for 9 years now and i often tell him i love you and he will not reply in the past when we first got to gether i would say do you love me and he would say what is love i would try and explain what love felt like and he said he was not shown much love from his parents i am the kind of person that can show a lot of feelings and my partner can not but we are happy and we do get on very well i am sorry about my spelling and i wish you well love megan

[melleebellee]

Men can be frusterating creatures at times,that is why they say they are from mars but someone once told me to treat relationships like a dance. If they take two steps forward you take one. If they take two steps back you take three.
men like to be the first to take the steps forward most of the time. When it come to the "L" word it might take a very long time for a man to say it. when he does you want to make sure it comes from his heart, not because it is what you want to hear. If he really does love you he might show you through his actions and the words will come later.

In life and love always listen to your inner voice/gut/higher power/ or what ever you call it. Your intuition is usually right

[Bev2007]

This is a people thing, not a man thing.

I'm not a man and it takes me a long time to say "I love you", and my husband will tell you I dont say it enough even after 10 years. But when I do say it, I absolutely 100% mean it. Thats why I dont feel the need to keep saying it. Nevertheless he likes to keep hearing it which has led to some interesting times!! People are just different.

So carmel, he may love you, he may not, but whether he says it or not isnt necessarily a good indicator. Look for actions, not words.

[Bev2007]

Actually Carmel, as you are on the relationships & dating board talking about how you go out every night and are into all 'da' guys but your boyfriend doesnt know, Id like to revise my advice although it isnt clear whether you are looking for declarations of love from the poor bloke you're manipulating or some geezer you picked up in a bar last night.
Im sure if you clarified this we'd all be delighted to help.

[carmelbaby]

megan07, thanks for the advice that you have gave me.

[carmelbaby]

Bev2007, last night i went out but didnt hook up with anyone is it still the right thing to do while my bf is at home but when im home he is out?