my guy friend is stealing my boyfriend! :'-(

[bobbikay]

if any of u remember my post: "what's wrong with me?" this is continued from that. if u never read that one: i started dating a guy i REALLY liked, but then i started finding him repulsive and was debating breaking up with him bla bla bla. okay, now it's been about 3 weeks since we started dating, and i'm starting to like him A LOT. i've never ever felt this way about a guy before, and i think he really likes me too. (well, he started saying i love u as soon as we started dating, he probably didn't truly mean it ha ha but i think he likes me a lot too.) he's sooo nice to me and treats me like a princess, but here's the problem: i introduced a friend of mine to him (a guy) and they automatically got along really good. now it seems like he has to tag along EVERYWHERE we go. me and my bf hardly ever get a moment alone together! and if we do, he always has to interrupt. it's like he needs my bf's undivided attention or something, and it's starting to drive me nuts and i'm starting to wish i never introduced them at all. like it's fine with me if they wanna be friends but i just wish i could go spend time with my bf even just once without this guy saying: "can i come?" or at least have a moment alone without him interrupting. any ideas of how i could do this? i don't want to hurt my friend's feelings, because i know he's not deliberately trying to do this.

[cartman99]

The behaviour at the outset of a relationship USUALLY govens what is acceptable (behaviour) and whats not throughout it.

In other words if you dont intervine now then you will always have this problem. Intervention doesnt mean you have to be blunt, be creative!

[mrknowall]

Id tell your freind if he is a true freind he will understand

[Jazzmanrules]

I think you should try talking to him if you can find him.
Go round his house (If you know where it is - if not, ask him)and, when you can, talk to him about your relationship & how you feel left out. Then, do the same with your friend and say how left out you feel - this should make him realise how lonely you feel.This should give you space from your friend & you should have communication back with your boyfriend.
Hope this helps