parental responsibilty of men !

[soconfused]

Just curious, but how come i have to ask my b/friend to babysit his own son and he moans about it , i cant go anywhere on my own yet and he just walks out the door without a care in the world!!! and asumes its ok, just wondering how a man thinks ? any male input would be fab. why does he make out that watching his son is such a big inconvience and hes far to busy.

[sleepyj]

one thing most men are are selfish . not all of them but i think most are . just think about them selfs when us ladys have to put our kids first all time . we cant come and go as we wish . men SELFISH SO AND SO . might upset a few men with this lol

[stokeace]

as a bloke sleepyj you have offended me most deeply [only joking lol] on a personal level i have always done my share of looking after the kids maybe thats why im a nervous wreck lol but on a serious note you must tell him that the baby is his responsability as well and that you still have a life too maybe if you told him how you feel he might even volunteer to look after the baby while you have a little time to yourself.good luck...

[jno]

sounds like he thinks he's got an unpaid babysitter. I think you need to have a sharp talk to him. In fact if his son isn't yours as well, a very sharp talk indeed. Many men make loving parents. Some are just idle slobs. You sure this is the right boyfriend for you?

[soconfused]

I think sometimes men just don't think like as women, i'm goin out tomorrow and he's babysitting , he's sort of sulking but he hasn't said no. I really just thought this is how all men are but perhaps not!!!

[sleepyj]

well stokeace your my kind of man lol you married ? your age . bank balance . lol :)))))))))0

[ELVIS68]

You need to put your foot down a bit more

Basically, he`s taking the p!ss out of you, what`s he going to be like if you have kids of your own?

I love spending time with my kids, I`ve got 2 boys aged 9 and 6......yeh they can pain sometimes but hey, wern`t we all at their age

[soconfused]

Just to clear up confusion, its our son , worded it bit funny , sorry

[stokeace]

lol sleepyj i like it

[ELVIS68]

Makes no difference, he`s still a selfish g!t

[cartman99]

I have my 7 year old when ever possible, its what i have to do when you dont get full time access.

With children you reap what you sow, if you put the time and love in then you will be rewarded with it back for life.

If you don't then you wont.

Tell the lazy so and so that he isnt just letting himself down, he's letting you and the boy down.

Your boy will grow quickly and its time you cant have back again.