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[sleepyj]

i have had a massive row today with my ex boyfriend .really think i hate men now think i will be better staying single for rest of my life . was with him nearly 18 years glad i never got married . have 2kids . has any one else found happiness after a separation. or think god wish i had left him or her sooner or do you have lots of regrets. i think i will need a man im only 35 or i will have to become a nun :0 thanks

[katieb73]

This sounds really corny, but you have to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with another person...Met my fiance years ago as a friend, when our respective relationships broke up we slowly got together. getting married next month after i swore i would never trust another man again!!! i have had years of frustration but truly believe i've now got my soulmate. You will find someone i'm sure, when you stop looking is when you find him! Good luck and remember there is someone for everyone x

[Joe_the_Lion]

Well I am a year younger than you and have been single for 4 years. Am I bothered?

Not really.

Don't get me wrong I have had the odd encounter, but due to my well known high criteria for women I shall probably be single forever.

It's not that bad. How many married or committed men can fly off whenever they want?. Or go to the pub or Lodge whenever they choose?

Or look at women in the street?

Be single and enjoy getting to know yourself.

[megan07]

Hi sleepyj i have been in a couple of long-term disastrous relationships and i was physically and mentally mistreated but i thank god my daughter never witnessed any of it and i thought to myself that is it no more then at the age of 38 i found a very very lovely partner and we are still very happy together so do not give up hope sweetheart one day the right man will come along wishing you love and happiness megan

[scruffscat]

Basically i agree with whats been said,spesh the bit about bein happy with you rself first.I know someone who has gone in a pattern from one relationship to the next overlappin one to the other, never been on her own and would be horrified at the prospect.Personally theres alot to be said for bein on your own, for a few months years what ever, enjoy yourself.

[sleepyj]

thanks every one . he has took all my confidence away over the years .i always put myself down coz he has said im nothing you believe it. lot of people tell me im to hard on myself .i need to concentrate on my kids and myself .im not after sympathy just really hack today .xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

[mrknowall]

Here is a little somthing to chear you up

http://www.123greetings.com/general/cheer_up/c heer11.html

[sleepyj]

thanks just clicked on that it said virus

[mrknowall]

oh dont go near it then sorry

[sleepyj]

ok i have just done a virus scan, hope it ok it should be

[sleepyj]

nice thought any way mrknowall xx

[mrknowall]

You have Mcafee i guess ?
I have this on this pc but not on my other theres loads of pages that it tells you not to go on.
I think its way to sensitive I have the AVG Anti-Virus Free Edition on my other.Which i think is better anyway sorry if you thought id sent you a virus i wouldnt do this.

[sleepyj]

dont know my son sorts my computer out for me so dont know what i have .i know i have norton on here what ever that is .as i said b4 nice thought xx

[katieb73]

hello again sleepyj, just to say when i was married my ex told me what a bad person, mother etc i was. and after a while when you get told the same thing day after day you believe it. i did, it took my parents and friends a good couple of years to convince me otherwise. i am a good mum and i have a funny, polite, normal, happy, slightly bonkers 13 year old son to prove it!!! you will overcome this, i believe in you and your children will too xxx

[sleepyj]

thanks very much thats very kind .xx