A very nice guy!

[Jennifer_667]

I recently meat a guy, which is about 7 years older than me. He has been married and has a daughter. I am aware of that. I also have been married and have a daughter. is there a problem with me dating him? And the thing is that it's been a small certaing amount of time and I really like this guy and just scared to get hurt. Am in the process of my divorce and basicly don't know exacly what to do. I wanna be with this guy but yet I really dont know mych about him. He is just so damb nice to me, and I feel that he cares for me. I really hope it's like that. He has shown me it is but am scared...

[NORMANTHEDOG]

for gods sake women,not every man is out to hurt you,get a life and face reallity or rot

[4getmenot]

You cant look at everything in such a gloomy way, be positive. My mate has just got with someone and she has a child and so0 does he, just make sure you don�t get into it too quick, and that the children are slowly bought into it. Everything will be fine. Go for it.

[Jennifer_667]

It's not that I imagine everyone is out here to hurt me it's just that I have been a lot and am just scared..

But yes, I am trying to make this work and I want to be with him. The children, yes it is a slow thing cause my daughter is still small and sees her dad so I don't want her to get any bad idea. As far as for his kid shes 7 and she knows whats going on at home and I don't want her to hate me so I wanna stay away until everything is ok and she agrees.

I also understand the fact the mother will always be there and he needs to be there so that ain't a problem for now.

[cartman99]

Angel steps, take it slow

[curlyperm]

EEE Norman Pet, your all heart!
Now.................your wandering again!! off you trot - back to Motoring! : )

[ummmm]

Norman has a very good point....he just didn't put it across very well.

Get out there and have fun. Don't be scared....see it for what it is and you won't get hurt. Take one step at a time and enjoy :-)

[Jennifer_667]

Thank you, And yes he has a point but a very mean way in putting it. But I still understand what he is saying.

[whitbybabe]

Follow your heart. Sounds very daft, but DO IT !!!!!!!!!!!!