save me from the nothing i hv become

[lovemadlydee]

hi frends its been to had on my own to face the fact that im tooo weak n not strong enough to face troubles im now lonely no real frends ,weak character i met a nice guy recently on net n its been only few days till he confessed tht he loves me , i love him too but not sure if he really does love me as he calls me rarely n doesnt care much abt me or even i feel tht he doesnt want to see me much as i do he works someother place n only comes for month n then go back work , i feel as he is totaly satisfied with his life not like me im weak n fuzzy gurl,i try n try but cant help i can just stay all the time spend the whole day thinkin abt him n wait him to call or even send me a msg , i feel so bad as i know tht he doesnt care much as i do, i call him send him msgs all the day but no reply from him
tell me wht to do?im losin my frends as i lost control on my life n nearly forgot how to deal with ppl in real life im livin a big lie n feel so bad n sad coz of tht as i wonder why im so weak i lost my frend coz of my weak charecter n now losin myself
plz save me from the nothing i hv become

[Kaylz1988]

I think that you should maybe sit down and talk to this guy. As he obviously doesn't realise how you feel. If he then doesnt make more of an effort with you I would move on with your life. I dont think you should stay in a relationship where you emotionally instable. Seems you have alot of personal problems with yourself. Maybe before you take that step of loving someone else, you need to learn to love your self. If you keep telling yourself your weak and not worth loving then you start to believe it. Goodluck xx

[lovemadlydee]

what if i sat n talked to him but whnever i tell him tht he keeps tellin me tht his life is busy n tht he got no reason to say tht he loves me if he doesnt love me he convince me for a while but then go back to my suspecious

[Kaylz1988]

Well I think you should start to distance yourself from this guy. Kind of play hard to get. Dont call him for a few days he'll soon notice the difference. Men enjoy being chased. Dont give him the satisfaction. If he texts you dont text him straight back. Wait a while. If he asks to see you, tell him you'll get back to him. If he sees that your clingy and needy, he'll feel in control. If this still doesnt work, hun I suggest you let him go.

[redhead23]

is this a wind up ?????????????

[lovemadlydee]

i feel so tired now n had enough of chasin him but i cant stop lovin him

[Trinny]

Stop chasing him. Wait and see if he contacts you.