Strange guy

[Roughquest]

I have been seeing a guy on and off for a while now, and I like him very much, when we are together its great, he is very charming, gentle etc etc...but when we end up back at his place he clams up - he wont touch me, or show any affection, and this i am finding very hard to deal with, its the same if he comes to my place also, and after we have spent an evening together, I wont here from him for days at a time, unless i make contact...what is going on with him....? I have tried talking with him, he isnt married...but I feel I cant get to know him or get close enough and its beginning to hurt now...he says i am confusing !

[Roughquest]

Hey Ratter, yes - the very same one ! I love it there...beautiful place indeed.....glad it holds special memories for you...that is lovely !

Oh and BTW - this guy does not have a problem in the bedroom dept lol.....

[Roughquest]

Sorry Red - didnt mean to be rude or sound rude, its just I dont know anyone on here anymore - it was not directed at you.

xx

[RATTER15]

Roughquest your confusing me now, you said: "he wont touch me, or show any affection, and this i am finding very hard to deal with" but he is good in the bedroom dept?

[RATTER15]

I remember one night at the Drum Inn with a female I had been after and trying to impress, she was succumbing to my advances on the way home in my Ford Zodiac, we were just trying to think of a nice quiet location when on the approach to a sharp corner my steering wheel came off in my hands and we crashed, that bug gered that date up, I never saw her again!!!

We were both OK but I got arrested the next day at work!!!!

[Roughquest]

Mr Rater - we have been very intimate together (sex) but this has happened away from his flat..if you see what i mean.....

[society]

maybe he's still a virgin, you never know.

[RATTER15]

Roughquest I see what you mean now!! I think. The problem is just at his place or yours?

This sounds like maybe he feels happier on neutral territory!! is he afraid of been caught doing something he feels he shouldn't be doing, subconsciously maybe?