Birthday ideas

[pitstopbunny]

Hi guys, someone the other day asked me what I did for my birthday last year....it was so memorable that I cannot remember, I doubt whether I did anything!

I want some ideas of what to do, there is only me (I don't have any close friends) but I am quite happy to do something by myself.

I'll be 39, I don't have much money and I am based in Southampton, UK. My birthday is at the end of June, so I have a little while to go yet - Any ideas?

[crete]

male or female ?

[pitstopbunny]

I'm female!

[redhead23]

go on a canal trip and have a meal on board would be diffrent

go to a spa for the day

book a day trip through your local newspapers

go to a museum

[4getmenot]

Go tree climbing

http://www.goape.co.uk/ContentHome.aspx?Id=54

Brilliant day out.

[crete]

well go to the nearest LUSH shop get a bath bomb, some dream cream. then get as expensive bottle of wine you can afford. next M S to buy a special meal and a dessert, go home take the phone off the hook have a very long bath, dont forget the candles, then log on to A B tell everyone its your birthday and youll get loads of replies.

[Skreecheeboy]

i think whatever you do you should try and treat yourself! I didn't really celebrate mine on Tuesday, kind of felt there wasn't much to celebrate. I'm 24 years old, lacking formal further education and am finding it tremendously difficult to find gainful employement. I have to struggle to survive and will certainly not be voting to maintain the status quo come may 3rd! I was up in the highlands with a group of young people as a volunteer and they surprised me by bringing out 6 cherry bakewells with candles on at 1/4 to 12 before my birthday which was really nice. Got in about 9.30 the next evening and opened my 5 cards and the cd's I bought myself off ebay the previous week and had 1 can of beer!

[redhead23]

ahhhh skreech your so cute xxxxx

[crete]

belated happy birthday skreech, voluntary work well done you

[pitstopbunny]

Skreecheeboy, belated birthday wishes!

I know what you mean, the only cards I'll get will be from dad & my sister, and I don't want to be sat here feeling sorry for myself!

Great ideas so far guys...didn't know they did tree climbing!

[redhead23]

pit i know this sounds a bit crazy but mabye you could try speed dating on your birthday !!! its normally 20 pound for a EVENING AND ITS NOT ALL ABOUT DATING YOU CAN TICK PEOPLE YOU WOULD WISH TO SEE AS FRIENDS TOO !!!

TYPE IT IN IN GOOGLE FOR YOUR AREA IT MAY BE JUST WAT U NEED ! X

[pitstopbunny]

hi Redhead! lol, a good idea but I am asexual, so I do not think it would work very well, but thank you anyway!

[4getmenot]

Yer tree climbing excellent and each course ends in a big zip wire :-)

[crete]

hi ptst, dont wish to be intrusive and dont answer if not comfortable. but id be interested by your defination of asexual

[pitstopbunny]

not at all, I do not experience any sexual desires or feelings towards either male of female.

[crete]

really. is this a recent thing or all your life ?

[pitstopbunny]

10 years ago, I gave up sex

[redhead23]

gosh pit !! i have never met anyone like that ! wow could you not go just to meet friends ?

[4getmenot]

I asked that question on here once whether there are people that dont have any feelings towards either genger and was explained alot then.

[redhead23]

pit is that like a religious thing or you just have no desire any more ?

[crete]

why did you choose to give up sex ? did you have sex with male or female ? again if no wish to answer no problem