Sort of half lie down with your bad ear on a warm hot water bottle, and try to stay there if you can. When I had my tonsils out a few years back, the doctor came out to see me because my ear hurt so much. He told me there's one main nerve connected to your ear, nose and throat, and pain in one = pain in the others. I found being upright was best, and with the hot water bottle on that side I got a little bit of comfort. Make a nest in the corner of your sofa and stay there til tomorrow!! :o)