Hi Excited Rubyrose,
oooooooo sounds promising! Better than my afternoon of filing!!
Hope it goes really well!!! I hope you fancy him even more afterwards as well!
I have known him for a year.. he is married.. and I couldn't fancy him anymore than I do! Lol
He bought lunch in and I will grab a sandwich.. we are just going for a wander round town!
The convo went like this:
Me - You going out after your lunch?
Him - Yeah need to go to the bank. What time you heading out?
Me - Bout 1ish. Just need to buy lunch.
Him - Ok. Let's stroll out at 1 then.
Me - Cool.
Girlygirl - You might have a point there! I did wonder why he then tried to back out of it.. but he is handcuffed to my desk until we go now so no worries. :o)
oooo good luck have fun, i'm hopefully meeting this really fit guy tonight, but wasn't a firm arrangement just a see you here next friday sort of thing, so fingers crossed we both might get lucky xx
You were right to play it casual. Just keep your cool and make your intentions subtle by saying you just need to do a quick spot of shopping and then dragging his a$$ to the nearest sex shop and picking up a pair of crotchless knickers, holding them against you and asking, "Do you like these?"
Any reaction (with the exception of him running away) can be construed as him fancying you.
Hmmm, i hope you have a bad lunch then you wont want to go out for lunch with him again.
That way he wont get any feelings for you and go back to his wife after work, knowing that his relationship isnt in trouble...
i too dont get it????? he's married? how can you be happy with that? he cant be that great if he's planning to take it further (behind his wifes back) or am i missing something too? : /
Hmmm, i hear what your saying Ruby. But there is never any innocence if one of you fancy the pants off the other.
Am i right in saying that if he made you an offer of taking something further , you wouldnt?
I think you would...