Being in control

[Trinny]

For all of you who have read my previous (mainly unhappy) posts about my long time partner, finally dumping me via email. He has now decided to contact me again! No big surprise to me. But I am actually replying to his texts as it makes me feel in control. I will never get back with him. But it now feels totally like closure to me, even though he has started contact. All be it, "friendly" as he puts it. Can anyone understand this closure bit, or am I just being stupid in replying?

[warpig3]

Morning Trinny love, Bigmama is right, sound advice. Yes, you do need closure on this relationship once and for all, the only thing with texting is that it always leaves it open for reply, have you considered writing him a letter stating how you feel toward himm, pointing out exactly what he has done to you and your children, the cowardly way he behaved, his audacity for contacting you considering how he has behaved etc?

If it was me (and this is just me) I would write it all down,everything, then leave it for a while, return to it and rewrite it without the anger -clearly and to the point, and finish by stating that I will no longer acknowledge any contact by him. Wish him a happy life then tell him to fcuk off (ok, the last bit was just me!).

Just hold on to thoughts of your future and that of your children, never forget all the things he has done but draw a line under him and them, and start afresh.

Love and hugs
warpig xxx

[Trinny]

Hi warpig, (you were up early!)

You are right, I definitely need closure on this. Absolutely. I have wasted far to much of my precious time on him. Took me long enough to realise it though, don't you think!! xx

Thanks as always to everyone who replied XX

[lovleylady]

yawn whats your middle name mug

how can you be in control puhlease and if you want a decent answer i suggest you go to yahoo answers

[crossroads]

This will give you more power than ever before:
http://www.bluejackq.com/

[Trinny]

lovleylady... suggest you change your user name.

If you couldn't think of anything decent to write, then why the f*ck bother.

[crossroads]

And one more thing, don't go to yahoo answers.
They will kick you off, like they kicked me off.

[warpig3]

lovleylady, what a delightful and charming person you must be, I would suggest that until you have something constructive to say and can say it in an appropriate and helpful manner that you do indeed, as Trinny says, not bother.

Have a nice day!

[lindapinda]

Hi Trinny,I think Warpig gave you great advice. Proper closure is the best way to move on to better things.Good luck babes x

[Trinny]

Thanks linda. I do have closure now. Taken me long enough though :( xx

[lindapinda]

Am really glad to hear that Trinny,don't beat yourself up and say it took you long enough. It took you as long as you needed !!

[leg_end758]

just make sure you remain in control trinny .