I think the point is that honesty would have been a better policy, as usual. Sadly though, program makers do what they like. I am not sure his wife would have known what they were going to show. She may not have been told the truth by the producers. Once a film has been edited, it is often not at all what the people it is about expected. A film was made about my son after he died, highlighting how the NHS had failed us terribly and I have to tell you that the manipulation during the filming by the producers was not nice. I was asked to use their wording not mine, which I was not at all happy about. So, it may not be the wife who is the culprit here. She may have been under pressure to say certain things, just like I was.