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thanks all, decided that Mr CP had the best 18 years of my life, and as he was a control freak i wanted out, problem is now that he is in TOTAL denial and thinks that by ringing almost daily (using Miss CP as the excuse) to tell me that he NOW realises that he shouldve done 'this' or been more like 'that' and cant we just try as 18 years is a long time (christ dont i know it) but he's had his chances before and gone back to the same old 'him' so..............thats officially it, and if he cant accept it......................TOUGH xx