guy in bar told me this .......

[legend758duo]

talkin to a guy in a bar here in the reef.
hes telling me about his mrs and why theyre divorced etc etc.
he says something to me that puzzled me.
he said " i was with my wife for years and things seemed fine , we had a routine , and everything appeared fine.i was a good husband , in my opinion , and never strayed though i had chances.then near the end of our marraige , in the last 9 months ,she started getting very jealous and questioning me .turns out she was playing around all that time."

now this seemed strange to me.
is this normal?
or was his wife just weird???

[Petal~flower]

Describing his marriage as a "routine" summed it up really

[enotrapfodne]

bet you a undred euroes he was gay

[zig_zag]

women aint angels as they make out

[legend758duo]

well it wasnt a gay bar.

i just wondered why someone would become jealous if they were being unfaithful??

whats the point ?

reverse guilt??

[enotrapfodne]

oh very wise words zag you have the meantallity of a peanut and I am being very genuos there

[rasmus]

To throw him off the scent.

[Petal~flower]

Maybe he was playing around too. Maybe he only told you half the story

[sophie_1003]

i suppose it kind of makes sense, if she realised that it was possible to cheat and get away with it maybe she though he was cheating. or she was possibly deferring her feelings of guilt onto anger and paranoia at him and, maybe sub-conciously as she was cheating that was what she got paranoid about. just because she was cheating though doesn't necessarily mean she thought the marriage was over, she may still have loved him (although I fnd it hard to believe anyone truly in love would cheat) and therefore got upset when she got paranoid

[legend758duo]

i take the guy at his word.
i was a stranger no reason to lie.
i think rasmus is closer to the truth.
tho it throws your men theory out the window too petal .

dont you think so ????

[Petal~flower]

legend, how many people do you know who tell you a story, would tell you something to make themselves look bad? Everyone loves a sob story you know

[zig_zag]

enotrapfodne
would you care to show me the end of your rainbow x

[legend758duo]

working in a bar ive heard many stories and i can generally judge bullsh1t from fact.

maybe i was wrong.

but the question wasnt about my judgement was it ???

[enotrapfodne]

I find it very strange and coinsidall that you and whiufry seem to say the same things and the same words that I have said well sttike me nutts of and call me whiffffey

[Petal~flower]

yeah, but would he of come and bragged to you, if he'd had an affair and left his wife. Doubt it.

[society]

Hello Legend!

I don't think the guy was telling you the whole truth. I also think he was probably doing things to make the wife become suspicious and jealous of him. I could be wrong. But I dout this guy was 100% good husband.

[society]

Hello Legend!

I don't think the guy was telling you the whole truth. I also think he was probably doing things to make the wife become suspicious and jealous of him. I could be wrong. But I doubt this guy was 100% good husband.

[legend758duo]

society you got a stutter?

well i cant be 100% sure.
but if you take him at his word , why would she do that ??

[zig_zag]

enotrapfodne you sound very morpheme

[hau kola]

I`ll be off then....

[Petal~flower]

Legend, you dont know this bloke. He is on holiday I assume. He is not going to tell you everything. Just the bits that make him look like the "poor ex husband"

I am not a man hater btw.

They just **** me off