do people expect too much of you ?

[legend758duo]

do pou ever feel like folk expect too much from you and smother you?
just wont let you get on with things?

why do people pressurise others and insist on them doing the 2right thing".

why cant they let folk live their own lives in peace ??



rant over : - )

[Silversky]

In what concept?
Relationships? Friendships? Family?

[Petal~flower]

I expect too much from myself, always trying to please everyone else. Hence me being a bitter and nasty old bag huh

[legend758duo]

in general.

you choose what or where.

petal you got a problem miss ?

[Petal~flower]

legend, if I had a problem, would you listen and make me feel better?

[legend758duo]

no problem petal.

im off soon.
but talk away

http://www.youtube.com/watch?voIwWqYSbzGA

in the end

[Petal~flower]

not much point in me talking away if you are off to your bed.

thanks anyway

[Silversky]

Well, if you knew me outside of AB then you'd know instantly that Im a very smothering person, especially when it comes to relationships.
But it's not because I expect to much I guess, just paranoia sets in, and I get very wound up.
But I suppose having to have a lot of attention means that Im expecting to much from a partner.
But I'd never stop them doing what they wanted to do because of this.

Friendships, hmmm. I'm constantly on the listening end of everything, giving advice etc. I get very tired, and then as soon as you try and say something, less sympathetic or voice your own life... then they're like 'Gawd, you go on a bit!'

People learn from their experiences of the "right thing" and they then think it's the "right thing" to pass on this information to others. Where it may not be suitable or out-dated.
This is my little rant. hehe.
Hope it makes sense to you legend!

[legend758duo]

dont say i didnt offer eh ??


ever wonder if youll find somewhere you belong ?????

http://www.youtube.com/watch?vzsCD5XCu6CM

somewhere i belong

[Petal~flower]

better to have no offer, rather than a half hearted one legend

[legend758duo]

what would you like ??
my email ?
my phone number ?

well ???????????????????????????????

[Petal~flower]

ohh legend, you chatting me up :-)

Sorry, you got me on a bad night. Am OK generally. Was not having a go at you

[legend758duo]

mmmmmmm

time will telll.

and no i dont do chatting up .


nowt personal ok ??