Love and Infatuation Part 2

[ab_user]

To follow on from my earlier question about this subject. Can you please answer me this? If I have someone on my mind ALL day and find it very hard to get that someone out of my mind, is this infatuation? When does infatuation cross over to become love and do you know when this happens? T I A.

[kp nonuts]

grow a life whiffey

[ab_user]

What?????

[laurence2]

Is the infatuation love or sex.

If its the latter, thats when it becomes very ''hard''?

[ab_user]

I haven't had sex with them laurence2

[laurence2]

How long have you had this infatuation with this person then?

[ab_user]

A few months, maybe longer.

[laurence2]

Is it reciprocated by that person then, or is it an act of fantasy on your behalf?

[ab_user]

That's the problem. It's a fantasy on my part as I haven't told the other person, I mean, they could feel the same for all I know.

[laurence2]

Well unless you take the ''Bull by the horns'' and ask that person out etc, it will just remain a ''fantasy'' i'm afraid.

Ps, thats assuming your fantasy is unattached.

[ab_user]

lol, yes laurence2, they are unattached. Thanks for your help.

[laurence2]

Are you the shy type then?

[ab_user]

Not really shy in general but when it comes to this person i don't know where to start. I feel foolish.

[whiffey]

Pardon me for intruding on your thread ab_user, but could I just say great big fat moist green bogies to nonuts ?

[ab_user]

Errrm, feel free to! :)

[laurence2]

Your be more foolish twiddling your thumbs on what might have been.

She won't bite you {will she?}

If its rejection your worried about, well we've all had that at some point in our lives, its the bouncing back from rejection which makes you a stronger person

[ab_user]

lol HE , no, you are right laurence2, but the fear of rejection is great, almost as great as the fear of being laughed at :(

[laurence2]

Well if she laughs at you user, shes not the fantasy anymore is she?

[ab_user]

laurence2, I am female, the person I lust for is male lol, not that it makes any difference. I don't think this person would laugh in my face really I don't.