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dont know what to do!
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Been with my fella 3.5 years now, everything is great between us, i adore him, i know he loves me to pieces!, have a home together and all that.
Ever since i was about 14/15 i have said i will walk down the aisle to The Celts, by Enya. that would just be so amazing for me. Only problem is, my fella cant stand Enya at all, and he has said basically, if i want that as my song on my wedding day, i can find some one else to marry!
Please dont think he is just being horrible, he just can not stand Enya at all!
We are not engaged yet, but very much both want to spend the rest of our lives together.
Ive just always had my heart set on that song when i walk down the aisle, but he wont have it :(
Ever since i was about 14/15 i have said i will walk down the aisle to The Celts, by Enya. that would just be so amazing for me. Only problem is, my fella cant stand Enya at all, and he has said basically, if i want that as my song on my wedding day, i can find some one else to marry!
Please dont think he is just being horrible, he just can not stand Enya at all!
We are not engaged yet, but very much both want to spend the rest of our lives together.
Ive just always had my heart set on that song when i walk down the aisle, but he wont have it :(
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sense4all, thats the thing, someone will have to compromise, but when it comes to come things we are both very stubborn!
Ive dealt with alot of things pretty well i think and people take the p!ss out of me for being old before my age because im very happily settled and dont do the usual teenage thing as they see it. its just always been my dream to walk down the aisle to that 1 song, and he says he wants the traditional thing wedding march, which i dont want!
I spppose one of us is going to give in, and its likely gonna be me if the last 3 yrs are anything to go by! but grrrrrrr!
Ive dealt with alot of things pretty well i think and people take the p!ss out of me for being old before my age because im very happily settled and dont do the usual teenage thing as they see it. its just always been my dream to walk down the aisle to that 1 song, and he says he wants the traditional thing wedding march, which i dont want!
I spppose one of us is going to give in, and its likely gonna be me if the last 3 yrs are anything to go by! but grrrrrrr!
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surely if you're gonna get married in a chuch you'd have traditional music?? I had some trumpet thing (quite nice thou, same music prince charles and the princess of wales had on their wedding!) 1992 and it really doesn't seem that important now - i'm opting for a thai wedding with my partner of nearly 8 years - hot, sunny, just the 2 of us! better than spending thousands on others!!
i just dont like the traditional wedding music at all!
Petal, its not the least of our worries at all, we have money worries and such at the mo,
Its just something that has really got to me! might seem pathetic i know but most girls want their big dress and that... im not so fussed about that, just my song! i even tried to bribe him by saying he can have as much Queen as he wants at the reception lol!
Petal, its not the least of our worries at all, we have money worries and such at the mo,
Its just something that has really got to me! might seem pathetic i know but most girls want their big dress and that... im not so fussed about that, just my song! i even tried to bribe him by saying he can have as much Queen as he wants at the reception lol!
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wense4al, we are both very stubborn to a point, i will always give in and apoligise even if ive done nothing wrong!
But i am a soft touch in general! i would never ever raise y voice to any one but alan, nhe gets all the !!!! ive help up for years, he gets it full throttle! so i end up apoligising to him because he doesnt deserve any of the abuse i give him!
But i am a soft touch in general! i would never ever raise y voice to any one but alan, nhe gets all the !!!! ive help up for years, he gets it full throttle! so i end up apoligising to him because he doesnt deserve any of the abuse i give him!
you're falling out over music... you can't agree over a kid's name... he doesn't believe you when you say you can't have children... Not wishing to be a cold water pourer, but it occurs to me you have some way to go before there's a meeting of true minds. How you sort the music out might well be a signpost for how your relationship goes.
