I've recently been doing-up an office block. While I was there a get well soon card came round & I was asked to sign it. The card was for a woman who'd just had a hysterectomy, & I put "I never knew you could wear one out ".Apparently the woman has gone apesh1t, & has reported me to her boss! Do all office- wallers have a sense of humour by-pass?
Perhaps if it was someone you knew well and who knew your sense of humour you may have got away with it.
A hysterectomy is not a minor op and the womb etc is to most women a huge part of their being. It not something you can joke about with someone you dont even know.
Perhaps you should apologise for your lack of tact in this case.
It is rather insensitive. Some women who have this operation take a long time to sort themselves out emotionally. If you knew the complexity of a womans internal bits and how messing around with it all affects their hormones you might not have written that.
As has already been said it depends on why she had the operation too.
A friend of mine was ecstatic at having her hysterectomy. She was delighted that they had ''Taken away the nursery but left the playground intact'' as she put it.
However I also know of a woman who had the same op and was never the same again ~ she couldn't cope with the fact that she was ''No longer a woman''.