when are men going to realise that sex is a two way thing? - its not something that men DO to women and that women ALLOW them to do to them!
why does there have to be this 'game' that men must go through all the chasing rigmarole and the woman must PRETEND to be chaste and wait for a socially acceptable predetermined length of time before having sex?
women enjoy sex, so why are we expected not to have it when we want it?
i meet guys and sometimes i think i like them and want to get to know them better before anything happens, and others i just want a fling with - why shouldn't i be allowed to do that, as long as neither get hurt?
I am a human, i have fantasies, urges, desires etc - why should i hide them and pretend i wouldn't dream of thinking such things?
this almost brainwashing everyone seems to grow up with is just outdated and old fashioned nowadays, and as has been said, it has always happened - remember all the wartime GIs and the pregnant unmarried girls banished to convents?
we are human animals - do you suppose female cats and dogs and ferrets and monkeys etc etc etc, 'hold back'...?
i find it highly bizarre and amusing that it is 'acceptable' to shaag like rabbits, go to all sorts of swingers parties, do all sorts of kinky stuff - as long as its with a proper partner! - but not just have plain old sex with someone you don't intend to marry or have a long term relationship with!
how is this a moral issue?
and ethel - but its alright for him to have been one of hundreds?
you imply that you can only have one or the other - I don't see why we all can't have both!
if you are single - go out and have some fun, if you meet someone special have a romance - there is not reason fro them to be exclusive.
its time men stopped thinking sex is for them and something women just put up with