Is it to early to be rat @rsed? Been drowning my sorrows and now im quite legless surprised i can still type........................................................
oh blimey, im using up all my hugs tonight ! heres one for you wizard ((((((((((X)))))))))
I'm so sorry to hear of your troubles!
Get as pi$$ed as you like and dont listen, it does help! lol just make it a one off and then pick yourself up, brush yourself down, and well, you know the rest!
I do hope you can work things out however things may turn out! XX
wizard, I really hope when you've both calmed down you can sort this through? For now have a chatter on here to try and help :) I am having a glass of wine :)
thanks julie (I used to have a girlfriend named julie)
and thanks beads
sky.. its a VERY long story, but basically kids can really f*ck a relationship up
hi wizard, my friend who has a child went out with a chap who had a child - because both adults had been single for a long time, it was very difficult at times. The children had gotten used to one parent and one parent's attention to themselves, and it's probabaly more than likely that the parent is going to want to protect their own child too. It's very difficult. But you sound like you really care about Mrs W. I do hope you work it out. When it's calmed down and been slept on, I am sure you'll be able to talk it through.
wizard69
Kids can only upset a relationship if you allow them to do it. Time you and your partner sat down and talked seriously. Hoep you both are singing from the same hymn book.
Try to sort it out instead of throwing it all away.
Good Luck. Been there, done it, got the T shirt.
All worked out in the end.