The ex......

[Twinkle17]

I split up with "the" ex almost 5 years ago, we have stayed really good friends since and have a great relationship, only in a friends way though, well.... until recently when we slept together, ever since it seems all of my feelings for him have come back.....He is acting exactly the same as before it happened and we havent really mentioned it......anyway the point of this thread is, its driving me crazy, I feel like we are just made for eachother and I want to tell him how I feel...BUT im terrified if it backfires on me it will ruin everything we have, things would just be so awkward and yet on the other hand im not getting any younger and "you only live once"....what should I do? would really appreciate some advice.....

[Mr k]

As you say you only live once....
You might be made for each other or might not you will only tell in time.
I would tell him how you feel if he doesn't feel the same you will soon know...
At the end of the day you don't really want to be just friends you want more. If this doesn't work how ever hard it will be you have to move on and find your perfect partner.
Good luck

[weeal]

i agree 100% with Mr K

[velvet lady]

i worked with a guy, fell in love and within 2 weeks he moved in with me, 6 months later it went pete tong and he left!!! i went to hell and back and nearly killed myself over him. 6 months later i let him slowly back into my life and 6 years later, we have a house together and we dote on eachother

ALL my friends and family said not to take him back, but he admitted he got scared and left! everyone cant believe how happy we are this time around,

i`m a believer in just going for it, but be prepared if it does go pete tong as it will break your heart, and that is a nasty feeling

x

[velvet lady]

i meant to say, we got nack 2gether after 6 months!!! lived with him now for 6 years!!

i didnt mean its taken 6 years!!!! oops

[velvet lady]

legend, u r obviously single and cant hold down a relationship? u poor sod, poor poor u

[weeal]

eh velvet for all your romantic wee story there you ava few relationships do you not

[velvet lady]

not really, i`m quite dull really, turned over a new shiny leaf. all soft and fluffy now. no more nastiness from me

so s****d and been drinking, i`m past caring

[velvet lady]

it was just a lie, all lies, only one nite legend,

thats all, i`m not batting for the other side, i just like to experiment. kick out the boyfriends and have some lady fun, no harm

[weeal]

so we shouldnt really believe a word you type then

[Louisa 69]

This is a hard one if he's slept with you and is showing no signs of rekindling the romance it could mean that it was nothing more than sex, men are complicated creatures. Don't get your hopes up ,either except what has happened and carry on like he is or speak to him and risk loosing him as a friend. I always say your ex is your ex for a reason.

[Louisa 69]

How did you guys get on Legend?? Did you all have a good time ??