my best stupid friend cant get over his lover/fling or whatever, and I am worried about his wife and kids, I mean its not fair on them that he's going behind their back so recklessly and without a 2nd thought abt them... Anyway, i slapped some sense in to him yesterday and told him to get his act together as I wouldnt stay friends with him much longer if he continued cheating this way... He said he was sorry and he would leave the girl but today while I was having coffee with him, he kept on trying to call someone and I have a strong feeling it was the girl he cant seem to let go... What do I do now? i've tried to get him to do the right thing, even the girl's stayed away from him but he cant seem to help himself.... is he retarded or is he having a midlife crisis?
How do you know he doesn't give a second thought for his wife and kids? You don't know that. It is perfectly possible to love more than one person. He is making a mistake which will complicate his life, but don't be too judgemental.
Also, I think you shouldn't get involved as you will only get resentment.