Hi all,
So some of you may have read my post a while back, about my boyfriend going to stay with his female best friend (who happens to hate me through no fault of my own... it is pure jealousy of our relationship). You can find the full story here if you're interested
http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Q uestion462777.html Well, after a brief break-up and an ultimatum he agreed to cease contact with this girl. Now all was quiet on the Western front for 2 weeks or so, then she reared her ugly head again. He claims that he doesn't answer her calls or reply to her texts, however having looked at his recent messages list, her name was at the top! Also she wouldn't continue to text and ring if he didn't reply, unless she wasn't all there up top and didn't get the message. Basically I can't understand why he would want to be friends with someone who contiually slags me off, when I have met her for around 20mins, and made the effort only to have it thrown back at me. Therefore I have never done anything wrong. He even had to ask her to stop being nasty about me. To top it all, she's not even nice to him! She uses him and talks to him like crap. Anyway... do I have the right to be furious that he is continuing this friendship? It just seems to be that he is constantly choosing this pointless friendship (they see each other 6 or 7 times a year as she's at Uni) over me, who has been there for him continuously over the past 2 years.
Thanks guys, just wanted another perspective.