lost love

[tattoomaster]

split from the lady i love so much not my fault but not hers a lot went on my life is empty with out her do i try to win her back?help

[REDHEAD24]

it depends can u give us some more detail did she dump u or u dump here

is anyone else involved????/

are u on a break or is it a split

[tattoomaster]

i drank to much so did she.she hit the s??t of of me did not hit her back.have a lot of text from her some good some not but i think theres a future for us

[weeal]

tattoomaster - obviously i dont know all the ins and outs but someone who HITS you is nooooooooo good - ever

[REDHEAD24]

get out of it , if its a violent realtionship and drinking , get some self esteem dont let anyone bash u around

u are not a punch bag , she has issues and mabye you do too
but together u sound like a dangerous and lethal combination

i hope to god there are no kids involved

its just coz ur hurt u want to get back ?? go back to a bully ?? a drunk ?? come on man

get some back bone

walk away

[tattoomaster]

redhead24 thanks i konw your right just needed to hear it from some out of the equasion.

[REDHEAD24]

dont mean to sound harsh tattoo

but seriously i think u know deep down to walk away

violence in any form whether its a woman hitting a man

or a man hitting a woman
is not acceptable

she needs help
and u are not the one to help
her
u will meet someone else in time and know what real love is
u are not a punch bag for someone else's issues u are worth more then that xx

[tattoomaster]

redhead your not harsh your are totally spot on thanks xx

[topogigo]

Tatts, this sounds more or less what happened to me, my thoughts are that you should walk away and stay away. All the ties that you must have had have most likely been severed or changed beyond recognition.
If you can, walk away, start again, i had to realise there was something that sent me away and i had to think whether it would ever change. I didn't go back.
The hurt gets easier, now i have anger and determination to get on with my life. But i am happy.
These are only my thoughts, best of luck.
Topo

[tattoomaster]

topo thanks what you say rings so true you would not believe cheers dude.

[REDHEAD24]

http://www.batteredmen.com/

[REDHEAD24]

http://www.marieclaire.com/life/sex/advice/abu sive-women

[jules1968]

i totally agree with topogigo,
walk away and move on to something new and something better. No point taking a step back into something that was obviously incredibly destructive. I doubt very much things would be any different.

I know it takes a lot to do it but something eventually clicks in your head and you know its the only way to go
Address your issue with the booze as well.
All the best for the future

unrulyjulie

[tattoomaster]

jules seeing what you good people have said the click in my head as just happened thanks

[jules1968]

good!!!! :-) trust me, i know how it feels. not the physical but the destructive side . Its no good for either of you ultimately.
and hey, there are some great people out there, why settle for something that isnt great?

i think you knew the answer to this one really tattoomaster, you just needed some reassurance about which way you were headed! good luck

[tattoomaster]

jules thanks xxxx xxxx hope the new year brings you all you want and deserve.xx

[jules1968]

lol i hope so too tattoomaster and may i wish the same for you.

onwards and upwards!!!!!!!!!! :-) X

[topogigo]

Ditto Jules!!!!

[tattoomaster]

jules to infinity and beyond xxx

[beso]

I have always observed that nothing attracts the interest of a female ex quite like getting with a new partner. Sadly it just makes things more complicated.