Getting this over and done with........

[caveman69]

.....so that I don't get maudling later. How long did it take any of you lovely peeps to get over a failed relationship.
An intense one ? Am right struggling at the moment and would appreciate a bit of advice x x x

P.S. Am SO gonna get maudling later aren't I ? x x

[dot.hawkes]

Hi Caveman
, take the time to listen to the lyrics
I know you're really a cavewoman, but this song does say it all, very painful

http://www.youtube.com/watch?viqUBHgqxutQ&rel=1

More Than A Memory

[Mr k]

I'm in the same boat cave having split recently i know how ya feeling..
Try not to think about her she isn't worth it mate and its her loss
Try and enjoy your night all the best

[Mr k]

Plus i live in a small is area and there's 99% she will be in the same pub with her new fella..(she was seeing behind my back)
But I'm not going to let her spoil my night i always say what comes around goes around..
Chin up

[flolo]

Chin up caveman I would say 99% of us have been in the same boat at one time. Only advice is to get out there and pretend you dont care Oh and stay off the Gin its famous for making you depressed Good Luck xx

[helliebobs]

It's ok to get a bit maudling caveman, you're only human after all (I presume).
For what it's worth my marriage ended in February this year after nearly 6 years together. I am over him, but still coming to terms with the actual marriage breakup, if that makes any sense. I was 8 months pregnant when we split up so while it's tough being a single mum, my son has actually helped me deal with stuff because i've had to focus on hims instead.. I'm still a complete emotional **** up though. You'll get over it, thousands of people break up with people every day. Just make sure you have a fantastic 2008 instead :)

[bobtheturkey]

i was ok im good with puncture repair kits

[dzug]

Anything between a few weeks and a lifetime, depending on how you let it affect you and the sort of person you are. But as a previous poster has said, time is a healer - it WILL fade, and matter less as time goes on.

[caveman69]

All I can say is wot blumming nice people you all are. Thankyou and hope you have the new year you deserve.

See,I did get maudling dint I ? But yer all helped bless ya !!

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[Mr k]

See it all went well in the end..