Some of your ideas of heaven are my ideas of hell: wine, icecream & family! not for me. I know of someone who died (in the operating theatre) and came back. He said he was cube like, everything was so peaceful, he liked it where he was. BUT then some strange things came along and began to stretch him and pull him and they were trying to make him into one of them. He didn't like this and resisted but they suceeded and he became one of them, he came back to this life. The 'strange things' that were making him one of them were human form, medical staff, bringing him back to this life.